Chapter 27
Fruit of the Spirit
Love
Love — Introduction
Loving God and loving others are
the #1 Kingdom principles.
Our love walk is vitally
necessary when it comes to receiving healing and deliverance, or whatever it is
that we are asking the Lord for. The failure to walk in love can prevent a
person from receiving their healing and can block the flow of God’s blessings.
Whatever we receive from the Lord, we receive by faith. Faith works by love
(Galations 5:6). Without love, our faith will not work properly. Therefore, if
we are not receiving answers to our prayers, perhaps we need to check up on our
love walk.
Unforgiveness and hatred are
deadly to our love walk, and these are blessing blockers. To hate our brother
is the same as walking in darkness, according to 1 John 2:11. We cannot say
that we love God and are walking in the light, yet hate our brother at the same
time (1 John 1:5-8, 2:9). Hatred is as the sin of murder, and no murderers will
inherit eternal life (1 John 3:15, Revelation 21:8). However, if we confess our
sins He is faithful and just to forgive us of our sins and to cleanse us from
all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).
If you do not have love in your
heart for someone, the Holy Spirit can place that love there. Romans 5:5 tells
us that the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is
given unto us.
Jesus tells us in Matthew 5:44 to
love our enemies. “But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse
you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you
and persecute you.” It is not easy to follow this command, but it is possible
by the power of the Holy Spirit.
In the Old Testament, there was
probably nothing of greater importance than the burnt offerings and sacrifices.
Yet love is superior to all of the sacrifices. David said in Psalms 51:16-17
that God does not delight in sacrifices and burnt offerings, but in a broken
and contrite heart. The heart and attitudes of man is what God is after. Mark
12:33 (NKJV) says, “And to love Him with all the heart, with all the
understanding, with all the soul, and with all the strength, and to love one's
neighbor as oneself, is more than all the whole burnt offerings and sacrifices.”
The law of Moses contains
numerous laws. However, if we just walk in one law—the law of love—we will have
fulfilled the law. Romans 13:8-10 (NKJV) says, “Owe no one anything except to
love one another, for he who loves another has fulfilled the law. For the
commandments, ‘You shall not commit adultery,’ ‘You shall not murder,’ ‘You
shall not steal,’ ‘You shall not bear false witness,’ ‘You shall not covet,’
and if there is any other commandment, are all summed up in this saying,
namely, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ Love does no harm to a
neighbor; therefore, love is the fulfillment of the law.”
If you walk in love, you will not
break any of the ten commandments.
We’ve read how important the
Baptism of the Holy Spirit is, the Gifts of the Spirit and speaking in other
tongues. But love is superior to that. The Apostle Paul said in 1 Corinthians
13:1-3, “Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not
love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. And though I have the
gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I
have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am
nothing. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give
my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.” Whatever we do
or accomplish in life—if there is not love, then it’s all for nothing.
Jesus commands us to love one
another. John 13:34-35 (NKJV) says, “A new commandment I give to you, that you
love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this
all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.” In
John 14:21 Jesus said that if we love Him, we will keep His commandments. In
Verse 23, Jesus says, “If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father
will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.” In John
15:10, Jesus tells us that if we keep His commandments, we will abide in His
love, just as He kept His Father's commandments and abide in His love.
In John 15:13-14 (NKJV), Jesus
said, “Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one's life for his
friends. You are My friends if you do whatever I command you.”
Paul said in 1 Corinthians 13:13
(NKJV), “And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of
these is love.”
God is love. To walk in love is
to walk in the light and be one with God. To love our neighbor is to have sweet
fellowship with them with Christ at the center.
The Greek language, in which the
New Testament was written in, has several words which are translated into
English as “love”. The primary Greek words for love we will be looking at in
this study are agapao (a verb) and agape (a noun).
Greek Words For Love
Listed below are the Greek words
which are translated as “love” in the New Testament. The numbers in parenthesis
besides each Greek word corresponds to the Strong’s New Testament Concordance
number for that word. For example, agape (26).
Agape (26) – a noun. Sacrificial,
unselfish love; benevolence; good will. God’s love for mankind. Our love for
God and others. Agape love involves feelings of affection, but is based on a
decision of the will. Agape love always gives, and puts the interests of others
before its own.
Agape is a term used for the Love
Feasts in the early church. The New Unger’s Bible Dictionary states: “At this meal the Christians, in connection
with their common Redeemer Jesus Christ, ignored all distinctions of rank,
wealth, and culture, and met as members of one family.”
Below are listed the New
Testament Scriptures where the word agape is found.
Matthew 24:12; Luke 11:42; John
5:42, 13:35, 15:9-10,13, 17:26; Romans 5:5,8, 8:35,39, 12:9, 13:10, 14:15,
15:30; 1 Corinthians 8:1, 13:1-4,8,13, 14:1, 16:14,24; 2 Corinthians 2:4,8,
5:14, 6:6, 8:7-8,24, 13:11,14; Galations 5:6,13,22; Ephesians 1:4,15, 2:4,
3:17,19, 4:2,15-16, 5:2, 6:23; Philippians 1:9,15, 2:1-2; Colossians 1:4,8,13,
2:2, 3:14; 1 Thessalonians 1:3, 3:6,12, 5:8,13; 2 Thessalonians 1:3, 2:10, 3:5;
1 Timothy 1:5,14, 2:15, 4:12, 6:11; 2 Timothy 1:7,13, 2:22, 3:10; Titus 2:2;
Philemon 5:7,9; Hebrews 6:10,10:24; 1 Peter 4:8, 5:14; 2 Peter 1:7; 1 John
2:5,15, 3:1,16-17, 4:7-10,12,16-18, 5:3; 2 John 3:6; 3 John 6; Jude 2:12,21;
Revelation 2:4,19.
Agapao (25) – a verb. To regard
the best welfare of another. To have preference for one another. To prize and
treasure. Love for the brethren. God’s love for mankind as demonstrated by
giving His one and only Son. Our love for God demonstrated in affectionate reverence,
prompt obedience, and grateful recognition of benefits received.
Matthew 5:43-44,46, 6:24, 19:19,
22:37,39; Mark 10:21, 12:30-31,33; Luke 6:27,32,35, 7:5,42,47, 10:27, 11:43,
16:13; John 3:16,19,35, 8:42, 10:17, 11:5,12:43, 13:1,23,34,
14:15,21,23-24,28,31, 15:9,12,17, 17:23-24,26, 19:26, 21:7,15-16,20; Romans
8:28,37, 9:13,25, 13:8-9; 1 Corinthians 2:9, 8:3; 2 Corinthians 9:7, 11:11,
12:15; Galations 2:20, 5:14; Ephesians 1:6, 2:4, 5:25,28,33, 6:24; Colossians
3:12,19; 1 Thessalonians 1:4, 4:9; 2 Thessalonians 2:13,16; 2 Timothy 4:8,10;
Hebrews 1:9, 12:6; James 1:12, 2:5,8; 1 Peter 1:8,22, 2:17, 3:10; 2 Peter 2:15;
1 John 2:10,15, 3:10-11,14,18,23, 4:7-8,10-12,19-21, 5:1-2; 2 John 1:5; 3 John
1; Revelation 1:5, 3:9, 12:11, 20:9.
Phileo (5368) – friendship; to be
kindly disposed to one; personal attachment; tender affection; sentimental
feelings; to love from the heart. Matthew 6:5, 10:37, 23:6, 26:48; Mark 14:44;
Luke 20:46, 22:47; John 5:20, 11:3,36, 12:25, 15:19, 16:27, 20:2, 21:15-17, 1
Corinthians 16:22, Titus 3:15; Revelation 3:19, 22:15.
Philos (5384) – a dear one; to be
fond of; a friend; an associate; a neighbor. Matthew 11:19; Luke 7:6,34,
11:5-6,8, 12:4, 14:10,12, 15:6,9,29, 16:9, 21:16, 23:12; John 3:29, 11:11,
15:13-15, 19:12; Acts 10:24, 19:31, 27:3; James 2:23, 4:4; 3 John 14.
Philadelphia (5360) – brotherly love;
the love which Christians cherish for each other as brethren. Romans 12:10; 1
Thessalonians 4:9; Hebrews 13:1; 1 Peter 1:22; 2 Peter 1:7.
Philadelphos (5361) – the word in which
“Philadelphia” is derived; love for the brethren. 1 Peter 3:8.
Philandros (5362) – affectionate as a
wife; a wife showing affection to her husband.
Titus 2:4a.
Philoteknos (5388) – loving one’s
offspring or children. Titus 2:4b.
Philanthropia (5363) – love of mankind;
benevolence; philanthropy. Acts 28:2;
Titus 3:4.
Philanthropos (5364) – love of mankind;
philanthropy; humane; kindness. Acts
27:3.
Philoproteuo (5383) – to aspire after
pre-eminence; to desire to be first; ambitious of distinction of status. 3 John 9.
Philarguria (5365) – avarice; greed;
covetousness; stinginess; love of money.
1 Timothy 6:10.
Philaguros (5366) – avarice; greed;
covetousness; stinginess; love of money.
Luke 16:14; 2 Timothy 3:2.
Spalgchnon (4698) – bowels;
intestines; heart; liver. Denoting
tender mercies, affection, sympathy, compassion, reaching out to those in
need. Luke 1:78; 2 Corinthians 7:15;
Philippians 1:8, 2:1; Colossians 3:12; Philemon 7,12,20; 1 John 3:17.
Agape (noun) and agapao (verb) is
the highest form of love, and is imparted to us by the Holy Spirit (Romans
5:5).
Without agape love in operation,
it is not possible to act in genuine phileo or philos love (love for the
brethren, family and friends). How can relationships thrive and survive if we
mistreat each other, are rude to each other, get easily angered, do not show
courtesy and consideration, do not show respect and honor to one another, are
unkind to each other, backbite our neighbor, say cruel and hurtful things to
each other, display jealousy, and do things which create an atmosphere of
mistrust?
Agape love is the kind of love
that God requires us to walk in. This kind of love is to be demonstrated to
everyone. Agape love is the foundation of solid relationships.
Demonstrating agape love from the
heart is crucial. One cannot enter heaven without walking in love. Agape love
is higher than human love, and it is not a kind of love which we can give out
in our own flesh or human strength. This kind of love comes from God, who IS
love. This love is given to us from the Holy Spirit who dwells on the inside of
us. The Lord wants us to be a vessel in which He can love others through us.
In 1 Corinthians 13, the Apostle
Paul gives us a fuller understanding of what it means to walk in agape love.
Paul defines agape love for us in practical terms that relate to our day-to-day
living.
Love Defined in 1 Corinthians 13
Paul the Apostle defines for us
what agape love is in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a.
He writes: “Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not
parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own,
is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in
the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all
things. Love never fails.” NKJV
Below I have given the Greek
words and Greek definitions for what love is and what love is not, so that we
may have a fuller understanding of what Paul is teaching. The numbers within
the parenthesis refer to the Strong’s New Testament Concordance.
Love is …
Patient (3114 makrothumeo) – to be long spirited, forbearing, patient; to
be patient in bearing the offenses and injuries of others; to be mild and slow
in avenging; to be long suffering; slow to anger, slow to punish.
Kind (5541 chresteuomai) – to show oneself helpful; i.e. to act benevolently; to show oneself
mild.
Not Envious (2206 zeloo) – to have warmth of feeling against; to be heated or
boiling; jealousy.
Not boastful (4068 perpereuomai) – braggart; to vaunt oneself.
Not Proud or Arrogant (5448 phusioo) – to be
haughty; to inflate; blow up; blow out; to cause to swell up.
Not Rude (807 aschemoneo) – to be (or act) unbecoming; behave unseemly.
Not Self-Seeking (2212 zeteo) – seek; require; demand (one’s own way); selfishness;
self-centeredness.
Not Easily Angered (3947 paroxuno) – to exasperate; to irritate; provoke; rouse to
anger; to be sharp.
Thinking No Evil (2556 kakos) – troublesome; injurious; pernicious; destructive; baneful; keeping a
record of wrongs.
Not Rejoicing in Iniquity (93 adikia) – injustice; moral wrongfulness (of character, life or
act).
Rejoices in Truth (225 aletheia) – what is true in any matter under consideration
(opposed to what is feigned, fictitious, false); truth as a personal
excellence; that candor or mind which is free from affectation, pretense,
simulation, falsehood, deceit.
Beareth All Things
(Protects)
(4722 stego) – to roof over, i.e.
(figuratively) to cover with silence; to keep secret; to hide; conceal; to
protect or keep by covering; to preserve; to bear up against; hold out against,
and so to endure, bear, forbear.
Believeth All Things
(Trust) (4100 pisteuo) – to have faith (in, or
with respect to, a person); to think to be true; to be persuaded of; to credit;
place confidence in.
Hopeth All Things (Expect) (1679 elpizo) – to expect; expect the best.
Endures All Things (5278 hupomeno) – abide, remain; i.e. bear trials; have fortitude;
persevere.
Love Never Fails (or Falls) (4098 pipto) – to fall; used of descent from a higher place to a
lower; used of descent from a standing to a prostrate position; to fall from a
state of uprightness; i.e. to sin; to come to an end; cease.
Love Declarations of Faith
Years ago I was watching the
Believer’s Voice of Victory, with Gloria Copeland teaching on love. She was
teaching from 1 Corinthians 13. She challenged her viewers to replace the word
“love” with “I am” or “I”, and then declare it in faith.
When I declared it outloud, there
were some things in 1 Corinthians 13 where I said to myself, “Yeah, right” (I
knew that I fell short of living up to 1 Corinthians 13 in some ways). However,
if you continue to confess 1 Corinthians 13 by replacing the word “love” with
“I am” or “I”, or your first name, those confessions of faith will take root.
Your heart will begin to change, and the Lord will help you to grow in love.
Declare Aloud …
I am patient. I am long suffering. I
am slow to anger. I am patient in bearing the offenses of others.
I am kind. I am mild. I am
benevolent. I am helpful.
I am not envious. I have no feelings of jealousy against another.
I am not boastful. I do not vaunt or brag on myself.
I am not proud or arrogant. I am not haughty. I am not puffed up.
I am not rude. I do not act unbecoming. I do not behave unseemly.
I am not self-seeking. I do not demand my own way. I am not selfish or
self-centered.
I am not easily angered. I do not get exasperated quickly. I am not
easily provoked. I am not sharp with others.
I think no evil. I do not keep a record of wrongs. I
do not have spiteful, destructive, injurious or malicious thoughts towards
anyone.
I do not rejoice in iniquity. I do not take pleasure
in injustice or moral wrongfulness. I do not rejoice in someone else’s
calamity.
I rejoice in the truth. I do not pay heed to what is
fictitious and false. I take no part in rumors.
I bear all things. I protect and cover. I do not
expose the secrets or weaknesses of others. I can be trusted to keep a
confidence.
I believe all things. I have faith in that person. I
trust that person. I have confidence in that person. (This is not saying that
you should trust every person because not every person can be trusted. This
passage may be saying to look for the best in every person, and that trust is
the foundation of a healthy relationship.)
I hope all things. I expect for the best.
I endure all things. I remain steadfast in bearing
trials. I have an attitude of fortitude and perseverance.
I will never fall away from Christ because I walk in
love. I will not fall into sin as long as I put on love. My love for Jesus
Christ and others will never end. I will never cease to show love. Love never
fails. Love is the solution to most problems.
Amen, so be it!
Love — Serving Others
In this message, we will focus on
expressing agape love by serving one another.
Galations 5:13-15 (NKJV) says,
“For you, brethren, have been called to liberty; only do not use liberty as an
opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For all the law
is fulfilled in one word, even in this. ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’
But if you bite and devour one another, beware lest you be consumed by one
another.”
To serve means to minister to
others, attending to and waiting upon others, caring for others, serving the
welfare of others. To be a servant one must have a spirit of humility.
Servanthood is putting the best interests and needs of others before oneself. A
servant attitude is one of meekness, kindness and gentleness.
To serve others is to show honor,
preferring one another (Romans 12:10). To serve others is to esteem others
higher than ourselves. Philippians 2:3-4 says, “Let nothing be done through
selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others
better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his own interests,
but also for the interests of others.”
To the world, the idea of
servanthood has a negative connotation. The ways of the fleshly nature are very
selfish and self-centered. The fleshly nature is more concerned about the needs
of self than the needs of others. The flesh seeks to be in control, seeks to be
served, and often times steps on others in order to get ahead.
The fleshly nature says, “What
can I get out of this?” … “What can you do for me?” … “How will this benefit
me?” … “What are my best interests?” … “I will give my 50% if you give your
50%.”
On the contrary, a servant asks
the question: “What can I do to serve you?” … “How can I meet the needs of
others?” … “How can I minister to others more effectively?” … “What is in the
best welfare of the other person?” A
servant gives his/her 100% regardless of whether or not others do the same.
A servant endeavors to be
sensitive to the feelings of others, and is considerate of the needs of others.
A servant looks for opportunities to serve.
A servant does not have the
attitude that he/she is too great, or too important, to serve others or do
menial tasks that are below them.
In Acts 6:2, the twelve disciples
said, “It is not desirable that we should leave the Word of God and serve
tables.” It wasn’t that they felt that serving tables was “beneath” them.
Rather, Jesus had called them to devote themselves to prayer and the preaching
of the Gospel. Serving tables was taking up most of their time so that they
could not fulfill what they were called to do. Therefore, deacons were
appointed to take care of these matters.
Jesus defined greatness as that
of being a servant. Before God exalts a person to leadership, He looks for a
servant heart. Mark 10:43-44 says, “Whosoever will be great among you, shall be
your minister; and whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be servant of
all.”
A servant leader seeks to be a
good example to others. They lead by serving, and their followers learn to
serve by observing their leader.
Jesus is our ultimate example of
a servant leader. Mark 10:45 (NKJV) says, “For even the Son of Man did not come
to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.” John
6:38 (NKJV) states: “For I have come down from Heaven, not to do My own will,
but the will of Him who sent Me.”
Jesus is God, yet He left the
splendor of Heaven and humbled Himself as a man (Philippians 2:4-11) and the
Father exalted Him with the Name above all other names.
Jesus laid down His life for us
so that we could have everlasting life. Jesus taught us to lay down our lives
down for one another (1 John 3:16).
Jesus is our role model of how to
demonstrate servanthood to others. He left His place at the head table to wash
His disciples’ feet (John 13:5). Jesus also displayed humility by ministering
to the needs of people around him. He healed people and went about doing good.
He did not have the attitude of “leave Me alone … I’m too busy”. He took time
out minister one on one with people in need.
Most of us live busy lives and
have responsibilities to take care of. Also, since we are not God, we cannot
meet all the needs of others around us. God does His job in taking care of the
needs of everyone. He’s just asking us to do whatever He leads us to do. With
our loved ones, family, church, and within our own sphere of influence, He
wants us to display a servant’s heart.
Love — Jesus and the Bride Serve One Another
The
relationship between Christ and the Church is a picture of mutual servanthood
and submission.
Jesus, the Bridegroom,
Serves the Church
Jesus
serves the Church by demonstrating His unending love, humility, mercy,
goodness, kindness, graciousness and faithfulness. He leads by example. There
is no selfishness in Him. He is concerned about the needs of His Bride. He laid
His life down for His Bride, and He wants us to lay our lives down for one
another.
Jesus
is very patient. He is not harsh, sharp or easily angered. He cherishes His
Bride, fostering her with tender loving care, with the implication of brooding
over her like a hen would brood over her chicks keeping them warm and safe.
Jesus nourishes and nurtures His Church.
Jesus
speaks tenderly to His Bride and demonstrates His affection and warmth. He
romances her and tells her how radiant and beautiful she is (Song of Solomon is
a picture of Jesus and the Church). He washes and cleanses her by the Word
(Ephesians 5:26). He takes her to the banqueting hall (Song of Solomon 2:4). He
provides for her, protects her, affirms her, and ministers to her needs. He
shows her honor and respect. He never overrides her will or forces her to do
anything, but allows us to have free will.
Jesus
leads without dominating His Church. When we call out to Him, He is not too
busy to listen to us. He is there for us. He is faithful forever, even if the
Church is not. Jesus’ actions of servanthood and humility provokes in His Bride
the desire to follow in His footsteps.
The Bride (Church) Serves
Jesus
There
is a distinction between being a church-goer and being the bride of Christ. A
person can be religious and not even be saved. The Bride is in love with Jesus
and seeks to do His will.
The
Bride serves her Bridegroom (Jesus). She finds out what pleases Him the most
and then does those things.
The
Bride serves her Lord by giving herself wholeheartedly to Him. When He draws
her to come and spend time in His Presence and share spiritual oneness with Him
in the King’s chambers, she does not reject or refuse Him. She says yes with
gladness of heart not because she feels obligated, but because she loves Him
and delights in her Bridegroom. She does not always wait to be beckoned to the
Secret Place, but she comes to Jesus on her own because He likes to be woo’d
too. Although Jesus is God, He has a need to feel and know He is loved and
wanted.
The
Bride serves Jesus by loving Him in the way He desires to be loved. She shows
Him utmost respect and honor. She reveres Him, holding Him in high esteem. She
does not say things or act in a manner which demeans or causes shame to or
belittles her Lord or His Name. She waits in His Presence and ministers to Him.
She tells Him how beautiful He is. She lavishes Him with praise and
compliments. She obeys Him and submits to His leadership. She has a heart of
submission and sensitivity to His Spirit. She chooses to relinquish control and
lets Him be in the driver’s seat.
The
Bride serves the Lord by dying to the flesh and self in order to live for the
Spirit. She takes on His Name and her life is no longer her own. She puts
Christ’s interests and plans above that of her own. She chooses to decrease, so
that Christ may increase. She chooses to yield to God’s authority and
leadership. The Bride adores and greatly admires her Lord. She keeps His first
command — which is to love God with her whole heart and to love her neighbor as
herself.
The
relationship between Christ and the Church is a type and picture of the kind of
relationship God desires between a husband and wife. Pride, sin, selfishness,
hurts, divisions, the cares of this life, financial problems, incompatibility,
sexual impurity (such as adultery and porn) and many other factors have robbed
man and wife from experiencing the ideal union that God originally intended in
the Garden of Eden.
The
Word is full of encouraging news and truths of how to have successful
relationships in marriage and with family and friends. The Word teaches that in
order to have joy and peace in our relationships that it requires us to, first
and foremost, walk in agape (or agapao) love. (The difference between agape and
agapao is that agape is a noun and agapao is a verb – action word. Both words
have the same meaning.)
Agape
requires us to die to the flesh and put others first. It requires servanthood
and humility. It means to treat people right and esteem others higher than
ourselves. It means to consider the welfare of others and not only our own
interests.
An
excellent book that I would highly recommend if you are married, or would like
to be married, is entitled How To Make
Your Marriage Exciting by
Charles and Frances Hunter. They were married for almost 40 years before
Frances went to be with the Lord, and then Charles passed on a year later. They
claim that in their marriage, they never had an argument or cross word. In
their book they discuss some key points the Lord taught them in order to have a
fulfilling marriage relationship. Everything they teach involves demonstrating
the fruit of the Spirit (Galations 5:22-24).
From
the intimate relationship they had with the Lord, it carried over into their
marriage. First John 1:7 says, “But if we walk in the light, as He is in the
light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His
Son cleanses us from all sin.”
The
chapter titles in their book are: Be honest … Be loving … Be patient … Be
courteous … Be considerate … Be fun to live with … Be desirous (avoid doing
things that irritate your spouse, be well pleasing to your partner) … Be
forgiving … Be loyal … Be one (be a united team) … Be married (intimacy of
spirit, soul and body) … Be in harmony with God’s plan (doing God’s will) … In
sickness and in health, for better or for worse (commitment).
Honor, Respect, Courtesy and Consideration
Agape
love and servanthood means to show honor, respect, courtesy and consideration
to one another. NOT doing these things causes resentments and can spoil a
relationship very quickly. Even little things which another finds to be
inconsiderate can lead to heated arguments.
In
family relationships, if you have been repeatedly told that something you do
(even if it seems insignificant to you) is irritating or inconsiderate, then on
your part it is a form of not showing courtesy. If you continue to do it, then
anger builds up for the other person/s. The other family member/s will feel
like they are not being respected or shown honor. In one way, part of love is
to overlook quirks and not let it bother you so much. Yet another part of love
is to be sensitive to the feelings of others.
What
if we show love to others but they do not return that same love to us? Although
it causes us pain and hurt when others don’t love us back, God wants us to
follow through on our part. When we stand before Jesus someday, we will have to
give an account of our own life and our own deeds. When He asks us if we loved
others, then we will be able to say, with confidence and boldness, “YES”!
Love — Showing Honor and Respect
In our society, in families, in
many marriages, at the workplace, and even in the Body of Christ today, there
is a lack of showing honor and respect to one another. The world has promoted a
spirit of independence and self-will to the point where the predominant
attitude is one of self-centeredness with little regard for others.
Agape love involves showing honor
and respect to others. Our society is puzzled by all the broken relationships
that abound. Yet how can relationships survive, or be joyful and peaceful, if
we show dishonor and disrespect to one another? Honor and respect is one of the
most important keys to successful, lasting relationships.
In the Webster’s Dictionary, “honor” is defined as: high regard or great respect given, received
or enjoyed; dignity; repute; esteem; to treat with deference and courtesy.
The word “respect” is defined as: to
feel or show honor or esteem for; hold in high regard; to consider or treat
with deference or dutiful regard; to show consideration for; courteous regard;
to avoid intruding upon (such as respecting others’ boundaries and feelings).
The term “deference” is defined as: a
yielding in opinion, judgment or wishes; courteous regard or respect; honor.
In certain passages of the Bible,
some translators use the word “respect” while other translations use the term
“reverence”. Reverence is similar to respect, except has deeper meaning. Reverence implies deep respect together
with love. To revere is to have high esteem or awe for; to venerate.
Reverence suggests a regarding with great respect, affection, honor and
deference.
In 1 Peter 3:7, Peter said for
husbands to dwell with their wives according to knowledge (know her, know what
she likes and doesn’t like, know what is important to her, know her heart).
Then Peter says to give honor
to the wife as the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of
life, that your prayers be not hindered. The Greek word and definition of
“honor” in this verse is timee
(Strong’s New Testament #5092). It means: “honor
which belongs or is shown to one; to value and esteem to the highest degree; to
hold in high dignity; to esteem as very precious; of high price.”
So Peter is saying to husbands to
show honor to their wives, to value and esteem them to the highest degree, to
hold in high dignity, to esteem as very precious and of high price.
The word to wives in Ephesians
5:33 does not just tell wives to respect their husbands, but to reverence their husbands.
Reverence implies deep respect together with love, affection, honor and
deference (yieldedness, submissiveness).
The Bible commands us to honor
our parents. The Greek word for “honor” in the verses that refer to honoring
parents is timao (Strong’s New
Testament #5091). It is defined as: “to
prize; to fix a valuation upon; to revere; to venerate; to honor.”
In Matthew 15:3-7, some of the
Pharisees and Scribes provoked Jesus by asking Him why His disciples transgress
the tradition of the elders by not washing their hands when they eat bread.
Jesus then asked them why their traditions violate the direct commandments of
God. Many of the religious leaders failed to honor their parents by not caring
or providing for them in their older age, when they had means to do so.
Resources that should have been used to take care of their parents was instead
given away to be used for other purposes.
Peter said to honor kings and
those in authority (1 Peter 2:17). Romans 13:7 tells us to give honor to whom
honor is due. First Timothy 5:17 says that the elders who rule well should be
counted worthy to double honor, especially those who labor in the Word and
doctrine.
Romans 12:10 tells believers in
the Body of Christ to be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love,
in honor preferring one
another. In the Greek, to prefer one another means to show deference to one
another or to outdo one another in
showing honor.
Paul said to show special honor
to widows in 1 Timothy 5:3.
Peter commanded us in 1 Peter
2:17 to show honor and respect to all
people.
Most importantly, we are to honor the Lord. We show Him love
and honor in our personal relationship with Him — not only in words but also in
our hearts and in our deeds. We also show the Lord love and honor by the way we
treat other people. Jesus said, “And the
King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, inasmuch as ye have
done it unto one of the least of these My brethren, ye have done it unto Me” (Matthew
25:40).
Love – Edifying Others
The theme of this teaching is “love edifies others”.
Romans 14:19 says, “Therefore,
let us pursue the things which make for peace and the things by which one may
edify another.”
Romans 15:2 says, “Let each of us
please his neighbor for his good, for his edification.”
The words “edify” or
“edification” comes from the Greek word oikodome
(or oikodomeo in some instances).
The definition means: “to build
up (as in the idea of building a structure); a builder; an edifice; an
architect; to construct; to confirm; confirmation; to establish; to be a house
builder; to rebuild; to build up from the foundation; to restore or repair.”
The Thayer’s Greek Lexicon adds
the following definition: “To promote growth in Christian wisdom, affection,
grace, virtue, holiness and blessedness.”
The opposite of edification is to
tear down, to damage, to destroy, to injure, to harm, to break, to weaken, to
put others down, to discourage or depress, to destabilize, to undermine, to
demoralize, to cut away by unkind remarks or actions, to crush, to deflate, to
diminish or reduce, to shred into pieces, to belittle, to humiliate, to
criticize, to disdain, to be negative.
While I was involved in the choir
at my former church, the Director of the Worship Department used to engrain
into us what she called the “3 E’s”: 1) Edify 2) Esteem 3) Encourage.
Before she became a worship pastor, she used to be a school teacher and taught
music to children. When the children
would begin to pick on each other like kids do, she would write on the chalk
board:
The children knew what the 3 E’s
meant. She also engrained the 3 E’s into those of us in the choir who are
adults. Adults can be like children except in grown-up bodies. Adults can be
far more cruel than children in biting each other with unkind words and deeds.
She and her husband have been, and continue to be, godly examples of showing
love to others.
To edify others is to esteem
them, to build them up, to compliment them, to honor them, to show them respect
and admiration, to show high regard for, to encourage, to strengthen, to be
supportive, to value and prize, to give others a boost, to uplift, to build
others’ faith and confidence.
Edification is positive and
uplifting. When we edify others, their faith is increased and our faith is
increased as well. Faith is always filled with hope and positive expectation.
When you edify others, you will feel edified yourself.
The Apostle Paul said that
prophecy is for the edification of the Body of Christ. First Corinthians 14:3
says, “But he who prophesies speaks edification and exhortation and comfort to
men.”
The five-fold offices of
apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors and teachers are for the purpose of
equipping the saints for the work of the ministry and for the edifying of the
Body of Christ (Ephesians 4:11-12).
Paul goes on to further state in
Ephesians 4:16 that the Body of Christ grows and builds itself up in love as
each individual part of the Body works properly.
Edification involves the tongue
and the power of words. The tongue has the power of death and life (Proverbs
18:21). The tongue can be used to speak words which promote death and
destruction, and the tongue can be used to speak words of life which promote
edification.
Ephesians 4:29 says, “Let no
corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the
use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.”
Colossians 4:6 tells us to let
our speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that we may know how we
ought to answer every man. Psalms 45:2 says, “You are the most excellent of men
and Your lips (words) have been anointed with grace.”
Paul said in 1 Corinthians 8:1
that knowledge puffs up, but love builds up.
Edification is more concerned
about the well-being of others. First Corinthians 10:23-24 says, “All things
are lawful for me, but not all things edify. Let no one seek his own, but each
one the other’s well-being.” To edify others is to NOT be a stumbling block to
them.
Paul says in 1 Timothy 1:4 to not
get caught up in doctrinal issues that cause disputes rather than godly
edification which is in faith. In this situation, it was not just a matter of
difference in doctrinal interpretation of Scripture. There were teachers at the
church of Ephesus who were teaching unauthenticated doctrine that were mere
speculations — myths and legends. The focus was on endless genealogies. This
teaching was not edifying and produced controversies instead of promoting the
Gospel and godliness, which is of faith and edification.
Believers are admonished to edify
one another. First Thessalonians 5:11 says, “Therefore comfort each other and
edify one another, just as you also are doing.”
Remember the “3 E’s”:
Edify
others
Esteem
others
Encourage others
Love – Pride/Humility
This message is about the subject
of pride. Pride is at the root of all
the reasons why love is often not demonstrated to the degree that it should be.
As an example, a common scenario
is arguments and strife in relationships. Proverbs 13:10a says, “Pride only
breeds quarrels …”
In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, love is
defined as:
·
Being patient
·
Being kind
·
Not being jealous
·
Not being arrogant
·
Not being rude
·
Not behaving unbecoming
·
Not selfish
·
Not demanding one’s own way
·
Not easily angered
·
Does not keep a record of wrongs
·
Does not rejoice in unrighteousness
·
Rejoices in truth
·
Bears all things
·
Protects
·
Believes for the best
·
Trusts
·
Hopes
·
Perseveres
·
Faithful
Pride is at the root of
impatience. Impatience says, “Unless everything is done in my time table then
“I get upset and show my agitation” … “I am the most important person around
here and get irritated with delays or if I have to listen to what someone says
longer than I wish to” … “However, when I have something to say, I expect
others to give me their undivided attention.”
Pride is at the root of
self-centeredness and demanding one’s own way. Self-absorption says, “My needs
and wants are more important than everyone else’s needs and wants” … “My time
is more valuable than other people’s time.”
Pride is at the root of being
easily provoked and displaying temper tantrums. Anger says, “I am the most
important person and I have rights to react, yell, scream or tell someone off
if they irritate me for any reason or do not do what I want them to do. I can
treat someone any way I wish.”
Anger is all about control and
control is backed by pride. Control says, “I want it my own way and I will do
whatever it takes to get my own way” … “I’m going to call the shots.”
Everyone experiences anger, but
the Bible says to be angry and sin not (Ephesians 4:26). In many situations, a
person who is easily angered will often be abusive verbally, mentally,
emotionally and even physically. Abusers are very wounded, insecure individuals
and they hurt other people. Abusers are very self-centered and usually blame
others around them for their problems. When they are confronted, they are often
even more explosive. They may apologize and say that it will never happen
again, but the abuse usually continues until the victim stands up to him/her.
Deliverance for the abuser comes when they humble themselves before God and
before man, take responsibility for their life and actions, and seek for
professional help.
Pride is at the root of keeping a
record of offenses, holding grudges and being unforgiving. Pride refuses to let
go of the wrongs committed against them. To forgive is an act of humility. To
forgive is to grant grace, mercy and pardon even when you feel like the person
who offended you does not deserve it. Sometimes it is hard to forgive because
we feel like the other person is being let off the hook and getting by with
what they did. Yet God has forgiven us of sin after sin, and has shown us
abundant grace and mercy when we did not deserve it. To the extent we show
mercy is the extent we will receive mercy.
Pride is believing that you are
better than others, and others are lower than you.
Pride is more concerned about
appearances (How will I look?) than in what is the right thing to do.
Pride causes barriers between
denominations, races, and economic status.
First Corinthians 13:4-5, in the
Amplified Version, says that agape love is not boastful or vainglorious, does
not display itself haughtily, it is not conceited and it is not inflated.
Proverbs 11:2 says, “When pride
comes, then comes shame; but with the lowly is wisdom. Proverbs 16:18 says,
“Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” Proverbs
29:23 says, “A man’s pride shall bring him low; but honor shall uphold the
humble in spirit.”
To love others is to have a
spirit of humility. First Peter 5:5-6 says, “Yes, all of you clothe yourselves
with humility, to serve one another. For God resists the proud, but gives grace
to the humble. Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that
He may exalt you in due time.”
Humility is defined in the Greek
as: “having a humble opinion of oneself,
modest, lowliness of mind.” (Low self-esteem is not humility.)
Philippians 2:3-4 instructs us to
let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of
mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not
only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.”
In Verses 5-11 of Philippians 2,
we are reminded of Christ’s example of humility:
5 Let
this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus
6 Who,
being in the form of God, did not consider it robbery to be equal with God.
7 But
made Himself of no reputation, taking the form of a bondservant, and coming in
the likeness of men.
8 And
being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to
the point of death, even the death of the cross.
9 Therefore,
God also has highly exalted Him and given Him the name which is above every
name.
10 That at the Name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in
heaven, and of those on earth, and of those under the earth.
11 And that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to
the glory of God the Father.
Quotes About Love by Dr. Leroy Thompson
Love never fails. If things are
failing in your life, then check your love level.
Love is not just an attribute of
God, God IS love. God is not faith, but He is full of faith. God is not mercy,
but He is merciful. However, God IS love. That’s the essence of who He is.
There are no limitations to those
who walk in God’s love.
The revelation of all
possibilities is in the understanding of my love identity.
The Church has been in the state
of reason and emotion for a long time. They feel good, and may run around, yet
don’t have the success or victory rate you should have if you got the
revelation of His love. When you’re in a real fight, you have to know how to
use the Sword of the Spirit and be led by the Spirit. The Church needs to go to
the reality of who you really are in Christ and what you have on the inside of
you and be able to use the Sword of the Spirit accurately and skillfully.
Ephesians 3:14-21 – Love
Identity. How do I access or activate this kind of love identity?
Love is the highest you can go in
the realm of the Spirit. Love is higher than faith, and even higher than the
blood of Jesus. Love is God and God sent the Blood. Love is higher than the
Gifts of the Spirit.
Love is the most excellent way.
God is love and love is God’s
whole identity. When you love God, you got all the promises of God, from
Genesis to Revelation. You have the fullness of God.
Love makes you more than a
conqueror. Romans 8:20. Anything defeating me is only temporary.
Ephesians 3 (prayer Paul prayed
for inner strength to be bold, strong, victorious, joyful).
Romans 5 — you can be in the
greatest battle. We glory in tribulation also, knowing that tribulation worketh
patience, and patience experience, and experience hope. And hope makes not
ashamed because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts. “Hearts” is
referring to your soul. The love of God is shed abroad in my mind and emotions,
and I am conscious of the fact that God will never leave me or forsake me.
God’s love is shed abroad in your
emotions. Say “touch me Lord Jesus”, and He will.
God can shed abroad His love into
your imagination. Can you imagine what would happen to your life?
Romans 12:2 cannot work without
love. You cannot fully renew the mind with just the Word, but you need the love
of God to renew the mind. The perfect will of God means love.
The love of God is shed abroad in
our will.
Perfect love casts out fear. 2
Timothy 1:7. The power, love and a sound mind cannot work without love.
Isaiah 41:10 “Fear not, be not
dismayed, for I am thy God. I will strengthen thee. I will help thee. I will
uphold thee with My right hand.”
Ephesians 3:14, inner man is your
soul.
The root of the Spirit is love.
Everything else is the fruit.
When you get out of love, you get
into the flesh and into pride.
Your first works is love.
Love is the master of the Spirit
world.
When you are all upset and walk
out of love, you are not as powerful as you could be.
The love walk is not an emotional
love walk. It’s triumphant.
Satan downplays love because he
knows how powerful it is. This world demonstrates weak love.
Be rooted and grounded in love.
Love surpasses knowledge.
Love surpasses facts. I’ve got
something in me to stir up miracles.
Love is supernatural.
Your life will be transformed by
God’s love inside of you.
You have to be strengthened in
your inner man by God’s love, before you qualify for the next verse. Ephesians
3:20 “Now unto Him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we
ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us …”
The richest attribute of God’s
Glory is love.
Galations 5:6 says faith which
works by love.
Love is the ground wire.
The stagnation and frustration
you’ve been going through is over. Love makes grace show up.
You will be stronger than you’ve
ever been in your life, because of a deeper love relationship between you and
God.
Love will never let you down,
even when you make a mistake.
“The past won’t last.” Whatever
you need wiped out can be wiped out by the power of love.
Love gives. “For God so loved the
world that He gave …”
“God so loved the world” … that’s
you and me. He loves us just the way we are. He just wants you to surrender
yourself to Him and receive Him as Savior and Lord.
The Baptism of the Holy Spirit
involves tongues, but is a baptism of the love of God.
Works don’t replace love.
Return to your first love and
first work (Revelation 2:1-7).
All limitations can be crossed by
love.
We are called in Christ to make
marks which cannot be erased, and love makes those marks.
Because of love I will live and
declare the glory of the Lord.
Love brings results to our
prayers and faith.
“Lord, spread Your love through
my imagination.”
Love heals the broken heart.
There is no greater love on earth
than being a grandparent.
Love can be stirred up. Hebrews
10:24 “And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good
works.”
Love is greater than faith.
Though I have all faith to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing (1
Corinthians 13:2).
Love is greater than tongues and
prophesying. Without love, I am as a clanging symbol and am nothing (1
Corinthians 13:1-2).
Love is greater than giving away
all your money and goods to the poor, or giving yourself as a martyr, for
without love it profits me nothing (1 Corinthians 13:3).
Chapter 21
Other Fruits of the Spirit
Joy of the Lord!
Joy
is the English word for Strong’s #5479, chara. Chara is defined as “calm
delight; cheerfulness”. It is translated as “exceedingly joyful, joyous,
gladness”. It is derived from #5463 chairo, meaning “calmly happy or well off;
cheerful”. It is translated in the New Testament as “joy”, “gladness”, and
“rejoice greatly”.
There are more than 28 other Greek and Hebrew words for joy. Definitions
include: exultation; elation; jump for joy; leap for joy; skip for joy; to
sympathetically move (as of a quickening of a fetus); to evangelize (announce
the good news of the Gospel); be in a good frame of mind; to boast in the Lord;
to glory in the Lord; grace; favor; pleasure; to give thanks; blithesomeness;
glee; mirth; to be bright; delight; shout of joy; singing; triumph; jubilee;
blowing of trumpets; acclamation of joy; sound an alarm; battle-cry; to split
the ears with sound; make a joyful noise; to spin around; dancing; to break out
in joyful sound; goodness; beauty; welfare; to laugh; to play; to be or make
well; happy; be content; successful; to make sweet.
The Merriam-Webster’s Dictionary defines joy as the emotion evoked by
well-being, success, or good fortune, or by the prospect of possessing what one
desires; a state of happiness or bliss.
Joy
is produced by the Holy Spirit (Acts 2; Romans 14:17, 15:13; Galations 5:22-23;
1 Thessalonians 1:6)
Joy
is second on the list of the Spirit-filled life. “But the fruit of the Spirit
is love, JOY, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness,
self-control.” Galatians 5:22-23
Joy
is associated with hope and faith (Romans 15:13; Galations 5:22-23). The Holy
Spirit is seen as the One giving the joy, hope and faith.
Joy
is also associated with peace and righteousness in the Holy Ghost (Romans
14:17, 15:13).
The
Bible says to rejoice that your name is written in the Lamb’s Book of Life, and
Heaven is your eternal home! Luke 10:20
Jesus
despised the shame of the cross, because He focused His mind on the joy of the
future that was set before Him. Hebrews 12:2
The
Apostle John had no greater joy than to know that his spiritual children walked
in truth (3 John 4).
In
order to remain joyful, keep company with other joyful and positive people. One
way to build your praise to God is to associate with others who are praisers.
Don’t
spend a lot of time with gloomy people, except to offer encouragement, prayer
and to cheer them up. Be careful of someone who is in a pit of gloom and
despair, lest he or she pull you in the pit with them. Sometimes you have to
turn people over to God and let Him heal them.
Unforgiveness
and bitterness will hinder the force of joy from operating in your life (Mark
11:23-26; Ephesians 4:31; Hebrews 12:15).
The
Lord gives us the oil of joy or gladness for mourning (Isaiah 61). God turns
our mourning into dancing (Psalms 30:11). The oil of joy and gladness breaks
yokes and burdens off of people, because of the anointing (Isaiah 10:27).
Joy
and rejoicing are daily choices. The Apostle Paul said, “Rejoice in the Lord
always; I will say it again, Rejoice!” (Philippians 4:4).
Joy
is cheerfully expectant. Joy contains expectation of a prosperous and
successful future.
Joy
can get you through any hardships, trials, grief or sorrow (1 Peter 4:12-14). Most
prosperous and successful people are joyful people, because they are positive
minded and are thankful individuals.
The
joy of the Lord is your strength (Nehemiah 8:10). The Lord says to prepare a
feast and celebrate, and sorrow no more. The word for “strength” in this verse
means a defense, a rock, fortitude. It also means “staying power”.
Joy
strengthens a person spiritually, emotionally, mentally, relationally,
financially and physically.
Science
has proven that laughter is therapy to the soul and entire body, including the
bones (Proverbs 15:30, 16:24, 17:22). Proverbs 17:22 says, “A merry heart does
good, like medicine, but a broken spirit dries the bones.
The
Holy Spirit is likened to new wine, and wine is also associated with joy and
laughter. The Bible says that wine makes merry (Ecclesiastes 10:19). The Bible
teaches us to drink wine in moderation to avoid drunkenness. Ephesians 5:18
encourages us to be filled with the Holy Spirit. It says, “And be not drunk
with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit.”
In
Acts 2, the Jews at Jerusalem thought that those who were filled with the Holy
Spirit and spoke in other tongues were drunk, but the Galileans were sober and
praising God in languages they had never learned, and speaking eloquently as
the Spirit gave them utterance.
When
you are filled with the Holy Spirit, you will speak to yourself in psalms and
hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord;
giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our
Lord Jesus Christ (Ephesians 5:19-20).
Joyful
people make a habit of singing quite often. Singing expresses joy and brings
joy. Some people need to get their song back.
Joyful
people are thankful individuals. They express their gratitude to the Lord and
others. They may keep a gratitude journal, and write down a few things each day
that they are grateful for.
When
a person expresses gratitude, then breakthroughs come to their life and dreams
come to pass, and then the person has even more joy than they had before.
Gratefulness expresses joy, but also generates more joy.
Father
God enjoys answering our prayers when we ask in Jesus’ Name, because it brings
us fullness of joy! John 16:24 says, “Until now you have asked nothing in My
name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full.”
Joyful
people make the commandments of God their delight, and they prosper. Psalms
1:1-3 says, “But his delight is in the law of the Lord and in his law doth he
meditate day and night. And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of
water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not
wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.”
Joyful
people never run dry, and they are strong and stable. They are connected to
Jesus (the Source), and they are like that tree planted by the rivers of water
that brings forth its fruit in season, and his leaf shall not wither and
whatever he does will prosper (Psalms 1).
Joyful
people have a spring in their step and tend to be more agile.
May
your morning confession be: “This is the day that the Lord has made; I will
rejoice and be glad in it!” (Psalms 118:24).
God
promises that those who delight themselves in the Lord, they shall receive the
desires of their heart (Psalms 37:4), which brings much joy. Joyful people
delight in doing God’s will (Psalms 40:8).
There are enemies to joy: anxiety, worry,
depression, hopelessness, gloom, fear, rage, anger, resentment, negativity,
insecurity, faithlessness, impatience, bitterness, unforgiveness, offense,
hatred, ingratitude, abuse, a victim mentality, lack of peace, exhaustion,
loneliness, confusion, pride, judgmental attitude, strife, arguing, discord,
family breakdown, complaining, murmuring, doubt, sadness, grief, mourning, sin,
disobedience to God’s commands, dwelling on past mistakes, spiritual darkness,
frowns, downcast appearance.
There are friends that
dwell with joy: love, peace, rest, strength, endurance, forbearance, patience,
meekness, calm delight, pleasure, positive expectation, hope, faith, grace,
gentleness, humility, high praise, worship, gratitude, gladness, cheerfulness,
rejoicing, laughter, dancing, singing, playing musical instruments, positive
thoughts and attitude, Presence of God, Glory of God, Anointing of God, the
fruit of the Spirit, smiles, countenance is radiant, dwelling in the light of
God.
Happiness
is based on circumstances and mood swings, whereas joy is fixed in the heart.
We can feel joy on both good and bad days and in any situation.
Joy
wins battles. When Judah’s army, at the leading of King Jehoshaphat, began to
sing songs in the beauty of holiness, and go out before the army praising the
Lord, God set up ambushments against the children of Ammon, Moab and Mount Seir
and they became confused and turned on each other and self-slaughtered (2
Chronicles 20:21–24).
Joy
is associated with rest. When you have entered God’s Sabbath Rest, there is joy
and gladness. Rest is also linked with faith and hope. As you rest, God is
working, bringing the answer to pass in your life.
Joy
is associated with believing (believing in God’s goodness, believing the Lord
to answer your prayers, believing for the best outcome, believing in a bright
future) – Romans 15:13.
Though
you may not have seen Jesus in person yet, you believe and rejoice in Him, with
joy unspeakable and full of glory (1 Peter 1:8).
The
sacrifice of joy, praise and worship, is likened to the fragrant offering from
the Altar of Incense in the Holy Place. Joy and praise are likened to a
sweet-smelling aroma ascending to the very Throne Room of God, for which He is
well pleased (Revelation 5:8-9 AMP).
There
is joy during sufferings, trials and persecutions. Joy is what sustains you and
gets you through it (Matthew 5:12; Colossians 1:24; 1 Peter 4:13).
Romans
5:3-5 says, “And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that
tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character,
hope. Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out
in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.”
Joy
undergirds your faith and hope. Joy also gives you the grace and endurance to
go through trials with composure, knowing that hard times don’t last forever. Joy
can rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory because it knows that
difficult times have an expiration date. Joy gives you hope for a better
future.
Glorify
God with all your wealth, honoring Him with your very best, with every increase
that comes to you. Then every dimension of your life will overflow with
blessings from an uncontainable source of inner joy! Proverbs 3:9-10
When
you rejoice and laugh by faith, you tap into true joy, and resist yielding to
depression and fear. Keith Moore, www.moorelife.org .
Happiness
is always an inside job. Be so happy that when others look at you they become
happy too. Life does not have to be perfect to be wonderful.
Joy
asks, “Who can I be a blessing to today?” Smile, for you never know how it may
brighten someone’s day.
Psalms
27 talks about the sacrifices of joy—rejoicing in God’s goodness, mercy, grace
and presence with singing, shouting, dancing, lifting up holy hands and playing
musical instruments. David knew how to rejoice before the Lord with the
sacrifices of joy.
Paul
mentions joy and rejoicing 16 times in the book of Philippians. Joy must be
crucially important for Paul to mention it so many times in one small epistle
alone.
Joy
is so powerful that demons have a meltdown, tremble and flee.
Your
joy is a demonstration of the triumph of Christ.
Joy
is associated with trusting in the Lord and rejoicing in His goodness.
Joy
is linked with the fruit of kindness. When kindness is demonstrated in
relationships, it brings joy to the relationship.
Joy
is the best makeup. Author Unknown
Joy
is contagious. Be a carrier and spread joy to everyone around you.
When
Jesus Christ came into this world, He was heralded in with angelic choirs
singing songs of joy, and joy was announced to the whole world.
Rejoice
because you are a son or daughter of God!
Joy
is found in the beauty and peace of nature, such as beautiful forests and
flower gardens.
Psalms
126 says:
1
When the Lord turned again the captivity of Zion, we were like them that dream.
2
Then was our mouth filled with laughter, and our tongue with singing: then said
they among the heathen, The Lord hath done great things for them.
3
The Lord hath done great things for us; whereof we are glad.
4
Turn again our captivity, O Lord, as the streams in the south.
5
They that sow in tears shall reap in joy.
6
He that goeth forth and weepeth, bearing precious seed, shall doubtless come
again with rejoicing, bringing his sheaves with him.
Comparison
is the thief of joy.
God’s
goodness, and any mention of His goodness, brings joy.
Proverbs
15:15 says, “All the days of the desponding and afflicted are made evil [by
anxious thoughts and forebodings], but he who has a glad heart has a continual
feast [regardless of circumstances].” AMP
Joy
is found in a grateful heart.
Zephaniah
3:17 says, “The Lord thy God in the midst of thee is mighty; He will save, He
will rejoice over thee with joy; He will rest in his love, He will joy over
thee with singing.”
The
body heals with play, the mind heals with laughter, and the spirit heals with
joy. Author Unknown
The
Bible instructs us in the attitude that we are to serve God. It says to serve
the Lord with gladness (Psalms 100:2). Gladness is defined in the Hebrew as:
glee, blithe, making merry, rejoice, joyful, to brighten up, cheerfulness,
goodness, welfare, beauty, to go well with.
Joy
is linked with waiting on the Lord. While we are waiting, God is working in the
situation and we can have joy knowing that. Waiting on God also speaks of
spending time soaking in God’s Presence, and in His Presence is fullness of joy
and at His right hand are pleasures forevermore (Psalms 16:11).
Joy
is connected to the thoughts you think. If you think joyful, happy, positive
thoughts, then you will be filled with joy and gladness. As a man thinks in His
heart, so is he (or so does he become). Proverbs 23:7
He
who refreshes others will himself be refreshed (Proverbs 11:25).
The
joyful person finds delight in God’s Word (Psalms 1:2), and delights to do
God’s will (Psalms 40:8).
“A good laugh and a long sleep are the two
best cures for anything.” Irish Proverb
Laughter
is an instant vacation. Milton Berle
Joy
is the serious business of Heaven. C.S. Lewis
Joy
is the settled assurance that God is in control of all of the details of your
life; the quiet confidence that ultimately everything is going to be okay; and
the determined choice to praise God in all things. Kay Warren
When
we receive miracles and answers to prayer, and dreams come to pass, it sparks
joy.
Weeping
may endure for a night (a season), but joy comes in the morning. Psalms 30:5
May
you become filled with so much joy and happiness that it heals every part of
you.
Joy
and grieving are meant to be shared with others. Rejoice with them who rejoice,
and weep with those who weep. Romans 12:15
After
Elisabeth (who was past childbearing age) gave birth to John the Baptist, her
family and neighbors heard that the Lord had shown her great favor, and done
wonderful things for her, and they rejoiced with her. Luke 1:58
A
mother presses through the pains of labor, and rejoices when the baby is born
and she is holding her infant in her arms.
There
is no greater joy on earth than to be a grandparent.
The
fear (holy reverence) of the Lord is a fountain of life. Proverbs 14:27
Once
you have feasted on the goodness of God, nothing else will satisfy. D.A. Ovieda
Happy
people don’t go through life collecting recognition. They go through life
giving it away. Dodinsky
May
we always have an attitude of gratitude, because thankfulness produces joy.
Joy
and hope are interconnected. You can bubble over with hope. Romans 15:13 says,
“May the God of your hope so fill you with all joy and peace in believing
[through the experience of your faith] that by the power of the Holy Spirit you
may abound and be overflowing (bubbling over) with hope.” AMP
Your
future is as bright as the promises of God.
The
reward ceremony in Heaven will be unlike anything we can imagine. www.DavidJeremiah.org
“Likewise,
I say to you, there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner
who repents.” Luke 15:10
Psalms
32:11 says, “Be glad in the Lord and rejoice, you righteous; and shout for joy,
all you upright in heart!” Psalms 46:4 says, “There is a river whose streams
shall make glad the city of God, the holy place of the tabernacle of the Most
High.”
Isaiah
12:3 says, “Therefore with joy you will draw water from the wells of
salvation.” NKJV
John
10:10b says, “I (Jesus) came that they may have and enjoy life, and have it in
abundance (to the full, till it overflows).” AMP
Jeremiah
31:12-14 states:
12
Therefore, they shall come and sing in the height of Zion, and shall flow
together to the goodness of the Lord, for wheat (Word of God), and for wine
(Joy), and for oil (Anointing), and for the young of the flock and of the herd
(Prosperity): and their soul shall be as a watered garden (Satiated and Green);
and they shall not sorrow any more at all.
13
Then shall the virgin (Church) rejoice in the dance (praise and worship), both
young men and old together: for I will turn their mourning into joy, and will
comfort them, and make them rejoice from their sorrow.
14
And I will satiate the soul of the priests with fatness (Anointing), and my
people shall be satisfied with my goodness, saith the Lord.
God
restored to Joseph many times over for all the turmoil and pain he had gone
through being a slave in Egypt. God turned Joseph's affliction into joy—so much
to the point that when his first son was born he called him “Manassah”, meaning
“He has made me to forget my toil”. He named his second son “Ephraim”, meaning
“God has made me double fruitful”.
Psalms
34:8 says, “O taste and see that the Lord is good: blessed is the man that
trusts in Him.”
The
Lord spoke and said, “If you only know what happens in the Spirit when you
rejoice, you would rejoice every day.” www.markhankins.org
Joy's
Multifaceted Connection: Joy is connected to: God's Presence (Psalms 16:11);
God's strength (Nehemiah 8:10); God's salvation (Isaiah 12:3); the Anointing —
the oil of joy (Hebrews 1:9), God's medicine (Proverbs 17:22); God's Word
(Jeremiah 15:16, Psalms 119:162); and Prosperity (2 Corinthians 9:6-10, Psalms
105:37-45). www.markhankins.org
When
we rejoice, we are acting like sons and daughters of God! Rejoicing is an act
of faith. www.markhankins.org
Remember
the words of Paul in Acts 27:25: “Cheer up…I believe God that it shall be as He
told me.” When we believe God, we can cheer up! Believing and rejoicing ushers
in the glory and goodness of God in our lives. www.markhankins.org
Look
at all of the blessings of God that are connected to joy. It seems that if
Satan can steal our joy, then he can damage a lot of other things in our lives.
www.markhankins.org
Jesus
sits in the heavens and laughs triumphantly (Psalms 2:4). www.markhankins.org
One
of the characteristics of the Kingdom is joy in the Holy Ghost. www.markhankins.org
Joy
gives you patience and staying power! It helps you to stay in a position
of faith while God is working a miracle in your life, while He’s working all
things together for your good (Romans 8:28)! If you rejoice while you wait for
the answers to your prayers, it won’t be long until you see the answer
manifest. www.markhankins.org
Joy
is the proper protocol for entering into God’s Presence (Psalms 100). www.markhankins.org
If
you want the Kingdom of God to break loose in your life, then joy is the
supernatural battle strategy. Get full of joy and the dominion of God will
break out. The faster you get happy, the faster the devil is out! www.markhankins.org
Faith
has a beginning and faith has an end. Joy unspeakable and full of glory is the
bridge between believing and receiving (1 Peter 1:8-9). www.markhankins.org
Rejoice
that what God has promised, He is also able to perform. When you begin
rejoicing, laughing, and shouting by faith, something happens in the Spirit
realm and the glory finds a place to land! www.markhankins.org
When
you go through a trial, the joy of the Lord neutralizes the pressure. www.markhankins.org
Laughter
releases resurrection power that melts down disease. Laugh at disease, laugh at
torment, laugh at lack. First John 3:8 (AMP) says, “…the reason the Son of God
was made manifest (visible) was to undo (destroy, loosen, and dissolve) the
works the devil [has done].” The Son of God was manifested to destroy the works
of the devil, and the language of laughter will loosen and cause a meltdown of
all the power of hell! Ha, ha, ha! www.markhankins.org
Your
joy is Jesus’ joy. www.markhankins.org
J
O Y = Jesus, Others, Yourself
Joy
is a daily choice. Choose joy and gladness today.
Fruit of the Spirit
Peace
Galatians 5:22-23 “But the fruit
of the Spirit is love, joy, PEACE,
longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such
there is no law.”
The general internet dictionary
defines peace as freedom from disturbance; quiet and tranquility; freedom from
or the cessation of war or violence; harmony, concord.
The Merriam-Webster’s dictionary
goes on to say: “freedom from disquieting
or oppressive thoughts or emotions; harmony in personal relations; a state
or period of mutual concord between governments; a pact or agreement to end
hostilities between those who have been at war or in a state of enmity; to keep
silent or quiet.”
The New Testament Greek word for
“peace” is eirene (Strong’s #1515). It is defined as “prosperity, quietness,
rest, set at one again.”
The Old Testament Hebrew word for
“peace” is shalom. Shalom is more than a greeting, but it wishes a person
prosperity, success and happiness.
The blessings of Shalom (Strong’s
#7965) include:
·
Peace, quietness, tranquility
·
Salvation and Baptism of the Holy Spirit
·
Rest, Joy, Hope, Faith
·
Love
·
Absence of war
·
Absence of strife and contention
·
Harmonious state of the soul and mind
·
Covenant relationship with God
·
Peace in our spirit (rational intellect, the part of us that communes
with God)
·
Peace in our soul (mind, will, emotions)
·
Peace with God, especially in covenant relation
·
Peace that surpasses our understanding; peace like a river
·
Unity; concord; harmony (the anointing oil flows with unity)
·
Freedom from confusion and captivity of any kind
·
The Lord looses the prisoners
·
Success and Blessings (family, children, grandchildren, houses, lands,
cars, both material and non-material things)
·
Giving thanks for all your blessings
·
Prosperity; wealth; living debt free; debts cancelled
·
Satiation of God’s goodness
·
Being filled up with the Word of God
·
Possessing the promises of God
·
Completeness, Wholeness
·
Restoration; Rejuvenation; Refreshment; Relaxation; Recreation
·
Contentment
·
Friendship; Friendliness (especially friendship with God)
·
Soundness in mind and physical body; excellent health; wellness; healing
·
With long life I will satisfy him and show him My salvation
·
Security
·
Welfare, Happiness
·
Nothing missing and nothing broken
·
Protection; Safe (in mind, body or estate)
·
Restitution; compensation
·
To walk in favor with God and man
·
God gives His Beloved sleep
·
Days of Heaven upon earth
·
A greeting (“May it be well with you”)
·
Messianic Reign
Jesus took the stripes on His
back for the punishment for our peace. His Blood Atonement was enough to
forgive sins, give eternal life, heal our bodies, minds and emotions, bring us
out of poverty and into abundance, give us peace of mind and peace in our
relationships, to give us total shalom.
Jesus tells us in John 14:27
“Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I
give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.”
In John 16:33 Jesus goes on to
say, “These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In the
world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the
world.”
Because Jesus has overcome the
world, we can be overcomers as well, and experience that peace in the midst of
chaos in this world.
When we are troubled in our minds
and emotions, and perplexed and distressed and full of anxiety, the peace of
God will overwhelm us to the point where it surpasses our understanding. We
won’t be able to understand how we could feel so much peace in the midst of the
storm, but His peace is there for us without measure.
Philippians 4:6-8 tells us:
6 Do not fret or have any anxiety
about anything, but in every circumstance and in everything, by prayer and
petition (definite requests), with thanksgiving, continue to make your wants
known to God.
7 And God's peace [shall be
yours, that tranquil state of a soul assured of its salvation through Christ,
and so fearing nothing from God and being content with its earthly lot of
whatever sort that is, that peace] which transcends all understanding shall
garrison and mount guard over your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
8 For the rest, brethren,
whatever is true, whatever is worthy of reverence and is honorable and seemly,
whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely and lovable, whatever is
kind and winsome and gracious, if there is any virtue and excellence, if there
is anything worthy of praise, think on and weigh and take account of these
things [fix your minds on them]. AMP
The Bible says that God is the
author of peace, as opposed to confusion (1 Corinthians 14:33).
The Lord is referred to the God
of peace (in most cases as a greeting) in Romans 1:7, 15:33, 16:20; 2
Corinthians 1:2, 13:11; Galations 1:3; Ephesians 1:2; Philippians 1:2; 1
Timothy 1:2; 2 Timothy 1:2; Titus 1:4; Philemon 3; Revelation 1:4.
Living in peace with others, to
the best of our ability, is crucially important in our Christian walk. Hebrews
12:14 says to pursue peace and holiness with all men, which without those
things no one will see the Lord.
Our peace can be multiplied,
according to 1 Peter 1:2 and 2 Peter 1:2.
God’s blessings and anointing
rests on unity and being in peace with the brethren.
Psalms 133 says:
1 Behold, how good and how
pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!
2 It is like the precious
ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron's beard: that
went down to the skirts of his garments;
3 As the dew of Hermon, and as
the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the Lord commanded
the blessing, even life forevermore.
Ephesians 4:3 says, “Endeavouring
to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.”
In the passage of Matthew
10:34-42, Jesus told us that He did not come to bring peace to the earth, but a
sword. What does He mean by this, since He is the Prince of Peace?
One school of thought is that
this passage means that He will have no other idols above Himself. Verses 38-39
talks about taking up your cross and following Jesus. Sometimes in family
relationships, there is division because of Jesus.
That’s why Paul said in 1
Corinthians 7:15 that light and darkness cannot dwell in unity, and for those
who are married to unbelievers to pursue peace to the best of your ability, but
at the same time to be willing to let them go if they choose to leave, because
God has called us to live in peace.
James said that where there is
envy and strife, there is confusion and every demonic work (James 3:16).
When Jesus ministered to people
in His earthly ministry, He would say, “Your faith has saved you, go in peace.”
After He ministered to the woman with the issue of blood, He told her to go in
peace (Mark 5:25-34). After the woman anointed His feet with precious oil, He
told her to go in peace (Luke 7:44-50).
Romans 5:1-2 says that we have
peace with God by being justified by faith. “Therefore, being justified by
faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ: by whom also we
have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of
the glory of God.”
Romans 8:6 says, “For to be
carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.”
Romans 14:17 tells us: “For the
kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in
the Holy Ghost.”
Peace and edification go hand in
hand. Romans 14:19 “Let us therefore follow after the things which make for
peace, and things wherewith one may edify another.”
Romans 15:13 says, “Now the God
of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in
hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost.” Joy and peace go together.
Jesus pulled down the dividing
wall of Jews and Gentiles, thus making them one body, with Jesus as the Chief
Cornerstone.
Ephesians 2:14-22 tells us:
14 For He (Jesus) is our peace,
who hath made both one, and hath broken down the middle wall of partition
between us;
15 Having abolished in His flesh
the enmity, even the law of commandments contained in ordinances; for to make
in Himself of twain one new man, so making peace;
16 And that He might reconcile
both unto God in one body by the Cross, having slain the enmity thereby:
17 And came and preached peace to
you which were afar off, and to them that were nigh.
18 For through Him we both have
access by one Spirit unto the Father.
19 Now therefore ye are no more
strangers and foreigners, but fellowcitizens with the saints, and of the
household of God;
20 And are built upon the
foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ Himself being the chief
corner stone.
21 In whom all the building fitly
framed together groweth unto an holy temple in the Lord:
22 In whom ye also are builded
together for an habitation of God through the Spirit (KJV).
Ephesians 6:13-18 talks about
putting on the armor of God. Verse 15 says to have your feet shod with the
preparation of the Gospel of Peace.
The entire passage says:
Ephesians 6:11-18
11 Put on the whole armour of
God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.
12 For we wrestle not against
flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers
of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
13 Wherefore take unto you the
whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and
having done all, to stand.
14 Stand therefore, having your
loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;
15 And your feet shod with the
preparation of the gospel of peace;
16 Above all, taking the shield
of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the
wicked.
17 And take the helmet of
salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God:
18 Praying always with all prayer
and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance
and supplication for all saints. KJV
Isaiah 52:7 is a cross reference
to Ephesians 6:15. It says:
How beautiful upon the mountains
Are the feet of him who brings
good news,
Who proclaims peace,
Who brings glad tidings of good
things,
Who proclaims salvation,
Who says to Zion,
“Your God reigns!” NKJV
The Gospel is the good news of
peace.
Jesus (the Messiah) is called the
“Prince of Peace” in Isaiah 9:6. It says: “For unto us a child is born, unto us
a son is given: and the government shall be upon His shoulder: and His Name
shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The Mighty God, The Everlasting Father,
The Prince of Peace.” KJV
Isaiah 9:7 says that His peace
shall never end.
Jesus’ Messianic coming is
2-fold. Jesus came to earth the first time as a servant, and to place peace in
the HEARTS of people and make a way by the Cross that we can have peace with
the Father. You cannot have true world peace until people’s hearts are transformed.
Jesus will come a second time to bring peace to this world and will reign in
Jerusalem.
Jeremiah 33:6 prophesies:
Behold, [in the future restored
Jerusalem] I will lay upon it health and healing, and I will cure them and will
reveal to them the abundance of peace (prosperity, security, stability) and
truth. AMP
Colossians 3:15 says, “And let
the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one
body; and be ye thankful.”
The phrase “peace like a river”
is used two times in the Old Testament. Isaiah 48:18; Isaiah 66:12.
Psalms 4:8 says, “I will both lay
me down in peace, and sleep: for thou, Lord, only makest me dwell in safety.”
Psalms 29:11 says, “The Lord will
give strength unto His people; the Lord will bless His people with peace.”
Psalms 34:14 “Depart from evil,
and do good; seek peace, and pursue it.”
Psalms 37:11 “But the meek shall
inherit the earth; and shall delight themselves in the abundance of peace.”
Psalms 37:37 “Mark the perfect
man, and behold the upright: for the end of that man is peace.”
Psalms 55:18 “He hath delivered
my soul in peace from the battle that was against me: for there were many with
me.”
Psalms 72:7 “In his days shall
the righteous flourish; and abundance of peace so long as the moon endureth.”
Peace and righteousness go
together. Psalms 85:10 says, “Mercy and truth are met together; righteousness
and peace have kissed each other.” Also see Isaiah 32:17, which says: “And the
work of righteousness shall be peace; and the effect of righteousness quietness
and assurance forever.”
Psalms 119:165 says, “Great peace
have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them.”
The Bible commands us to pray for
the peace of Jerusalem.
Psalms 122:6-9 says:
6 Pray for the peace of
Jerusalem: they shall prosper that love thee.
7 Peace be within thy walls, and
prosperity within thy palaces.
8 For my brethren and companions'
sakes, I will now say, Peace be within thee.
9 Because of the house of the
Lord our God I will seek thy good.
Wisdom brings peace. Proverbs
3:1-2 says, “My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my
commandments. For length of days, and long life, and peace, shall they add to
thee.
More is said about how wisdom
brings peace to our lives. Proverbs 3:16-18 tells us: “Length of days is in her
right hand; and in her left hand riches and honour. Her ways are ways of
pleasantness, and all her paths are peace. She is a tree of life to them that
lay hold upon her: and happy is every one that retaineth her.”
In James, it says that the wisdom
that comes from above is peaceable, and filled with good fruit (James 3:17).
1 Timothy 2:2 talks about leading
a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty.
Hebrews 12:11 says that no
discipline seems pleasant at the time, but it yields the peaceable fruits of
righteousness.
Proverbs 11:12 says that a man of
understanding, or wisdom, holds his peace. He is not quarrelsome.
Proverbs 16:7 says that when a
man's ways please the Lord, he maketh even his enemies to be at peace with him.
If you want peace of mind, then
keep your thoughts on the Lord and His Word. Isaiah 26:3 says, “Thou wilt keep
him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in
thee.”
Isaiah 26:12 says that God will
ordain peace for us.
Isaiah 54:13 declares, “And all
thy children shall be taught of the Lord; and great shall be the peace of thy
children.”
We are led by the Spirit through
inward peace, and we go out in joy (Isaiah 55:12).
Isaiah 57:21 says that there is
no peace for those who are wicked. Their life is always filled with trouble and
strife.
Jeremiah 29:11-13 gives us hope:
11 For I know the thoughts and
plans that I have for you, says the Lord, thoughts and plans for welfare and
peace and not for evil, to give you hope in your final outcome.
12 Then you will call upon Me,
and you will come and pray to Me, and I will hear and heed you.
13 Then you will seek Me, inquire
for, and require Me [as a vital necessity] and find Me when you search for Me
with all your heart. AMP
Fruit of the Spirit
Patience
Galatians
5:22-23 “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, PATIENCE, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and
self-control.” NIV
In
other versions, such as the KJV, NKJV and AMP, the word “longsuffering” is used
for patience.
Patience
and longsuffering is forbearance and having an even temper.
Patience
is not determined by how long you wait, but your attitude while waiting.
Patience
is linked with rejoicing always, giving thanks, hope, suffering, tribulation
and continual prayer (Romans 12:12, 1 Thessalonians 5:14-18).
Romans
12:12 tells us to rejoice and exult in hope; be steadfast and patient in
suffering and tribulation; be constant in prayer. AMP
We
are commanded to be patient with everyone around us, although that may be
difficult at times (1 Thessalonians 5:14).
James
tells us to be patient for the appearing of the Lord. James 5:7-8 says, “Be
patient therefore, brethren, unto the coming of the Lord. Behold, the
husbandman waiteth for the precious fruit of the earth, and hath long patience
for it, until he receive the early and latter rain. Be ye also patient;
stablish your hearts: for the coming of the Lord draweth nigh.” KJV
A
bishop must be a very patient individual to meet the qualifications for the
office of the bishop (1 Timothy 3:1-7).
In
2 Timothy 2:24-25, the servant of the Lord must not strive (get into heated
debates); but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, in meekness
instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them
repentance to the acknowledging of the truth. KJV
The
Apostle Paul was a very patient and meek man (2 Corinthians 6:3-10, 12:12).
This passage shows the marks of true apostles.
Jesus
and the Father are our ultimate examples of showing us patience and kindness.
When we have sin in our lives they are very patient with us, desiring to work
with us to help us overcome and repent.
Jesus
was very patient with mankind when He went to the Cross. He endured all the
mockery, the shame, the unfair trial, the beatings, scourging, the abuse, the
crucifixion so that we could have eternal life.
Love
is patient (1 Corinthians 13:4).
The
words “patient” or “longsuffering” in 1 Corinthians 13:4 (and 1 Thessalonians
5:14 and James 5:7-8) is the Greek word makrothumeo (NT:3114). It is defined as
to be long-spirited; forbearance; long enduring temper.
Other
Greek words for “patient” and “longsuffering” include:
anexikakos
(NT:420) = enduring of ill; forbearance (2 Timothy 2:24)
epieikes
(NT:1933) = mild, gentle (1 Timothy 3:3)
makrothumia (NT:3115) = longanimity, forbearance, fortitude (Hebrews 6:12 and James 5:10)
hupomeno (NT:5278) = to stay under; to undergo; bear trials; have fortitude; persevere (Romans 12:12)
hupomone (NT:5281) = cheerful (or hopeful) endurance; constancy; patient continuance (waiting) (Romans 2:7, 1 Timothy 6:11, Hebrews 10:36, Hebrews 12:1, James 1:3)
Patience
is associated with kindness (to be mild and gentle).
Patience
is associated with cheerful and hopeful endurance and constancy.
When
the soil of our heart is good ground, then we will bear fruit with patience.
“But the ones that fell on the good ground are those who, having heard the Word
with a noble and good heart, keep it and bear fruit with patience” (Luke 8:15).
By
your patience possess your souls (Luke 21:19). NKJV
Romans
5:3-5 says, “And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that
tribulation worketh patience; and patience, experience; and experience, hope:
and hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our
hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us.” KJV
Romans
8:25 “But if we hope for that we see not, then do we with patience wait for
it.” KJV
Romans
15:4 “For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our
learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have
hope.” KJV
Patience
and consolation are linked together (Romans 15:5).
In
Colossians 1:11, patience, longsuffering and joyfulness is interconnected.
In
1 Thessalonians 1:3, it refers to the patience one must have to be in the
ministry. There were those who were commended for being patient during
persecutions (2 Thessalonians 1:4; 2 Timothy 3:10-12).
Patience
is mentioned along with love, faith, righteousness, godliness and meekness (1
Timothy 6:11).
In
Titus 2:2, the older men are to be examples to the younger generation of those
who walk in patience.
Hebrews
6:12 says, “That ye be not slothful, but followers of them who through faith
and patience inherit the promises.” KJV
Faith
and patience are power twins. They function together. There are some promises
of God that take a while to manifest, and we have need of faith and patience to
see our answers materialize.
“Cast
not away therefore your confidence, which hath great recompence of reward. For
ye have need of patience, that, after ye have done the will of God, ye might
receive the promise.” Hebrews 10:35-36 (KJV)
Hebrews
12:1-2 says, “Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a
cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so
easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us,
looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith. KJV
James
1:3-4 says, “Be assured and understand that the trial and proving of your faith
bring out endurance and steadfastness and patience. But let endurance and
steadfastness and patience have full play and do a thorough work, so that you
may be [people] perfectly and fully developed [with no defects], lacking in
nothing.” AMP
Job
was one of the most patient men alive, and he came out of his trial with twice
as much as he had before. James 5:11 says, “You know how we call those blessed
(happy) who were steadfast [who endured]. You have heard of the endurance of
Job, and you have seen the Lord's [purpose and how He richly blessed him in
the] end, inasmuch as the Lord is full of pity and compassion and tenderness
and mercy.” AMP
2
Peter 1:5-9 refers to the nine (9) Graces of the Spirit filled life:
·
Put on diligence
·
Develop faith
·
Develop virtue
·
Develop knowledge
·
Develop self-control
·
Develop patience
·
Develop godliness
·
Develop brotherly affection
·
Develop Christian love.
In
the letter to the Church of Ephesus in Revelation 2:2-3, they were commended
for their patience and endurance.
In
the letter to the Church of Thyatira in Revelation 2:19, they were commended
for their patience, service and faith.
In
the letter to the Church of Philadelphia in Revelation 3:10, they were
commended for their patience and perseverance, and were given a promise to be
kept from the hour of trial which shall come upon the whole world.
In
Revelation 13:10 and 14:12, it talks about the patience and faith of the
saints. Some would be martyrs.
Romans
2:4 says that God is longsuffering towards us … “Or despisest thou the riches
of His goodness and forbearance and longsuffering; not knowing that the
goodness of God leadeth thee to repentance?” KJV
We
are to walk with all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one
another in love; endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of
peace. Ephesians 4:2-3 KJV
Colossians
3:12-15 tells us:
12
Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies,
kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;
13
Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel
against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.
14
And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.
15
And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called
in one body; and be ye thankful. KJV
2
Timothy 4:2 “Preach the Word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove,
rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine.” KJV
During
the days of Noah, while the Ark was being prepared, God demonstrated
longsuffering towards that generation for hundreds of years before the flood
finally came. The door to the Gospel is opened right now and God has issued
everyone an invitation to be saved. A time will come, though, when that window
will be closed. Today is the day of salvation.
2
Peter 3:9 “The lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some men count
slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish,
but that all should come to repentance.
Greek
Theologian, Rick Renner, says that longsuffering is patient restraint of
anger. https://renner.org/longsuffering-and-gentleness/
Rick
Renner also says that other possible interpretive translations of the Greek
word makrothumia in First Corinthians 13:4 could include:
“Love is not short-tempered or easily angered.…”
“Love does not quickly blow its top, but it is patient as it waits for others.…”
“Love is not irritable and impatient but is willing to wait a long time
for someone to change.…”
“Love is determined to wait until the other person finally comes
around….”
“Love passionately burns for others and is willing to wait as long as is
necessary.…”
Makrothumia is the equivalent of our English idiom “having a long fuse”; a patient
person can take a lot of provocation before reacting.
As
the phrase “fruit of the Spirit” implies, we can only have patience when the
Holy Spirit works through us.
You
need to walk in joy because joy keeps your attitude straight while you exercise
your patience. You need to walk in peace in order to walk in patience because
you are trusting God to come through for you and the measure of your peace is
the measure of your trust. You can be patient because your trust is in God who
answers prayer and delivers you from all tribulations.
“The
Lord is gracious and full of compassion, slow to anger and great in
mercy” (Psalms 145:8). That’s the way He expects us to be!
“He
who is slow to wrath has great understanding, but he who is impulsive
exalts folly” (Proverbs 14:29). “A wrathful man stirs up strife, but he
who is slow to anger allays contention” (Proverbs 15:18). “The
discretion of a man makes him slow to anger, and his glory is to overlook
a transgression” (Proverbs 19:11).
Impatience, annoyance, anger, intolerance, worry,
fear, and distrust are the opposites of patience. These prevent us from seeing, as our
Lord wants us to see, that all things will work for His good in the end (Romans
8:28).
Patience
will allow us to manage anger and problems, and to wait on God's timing.
Patience will allow us to forgive (Romans 5:8), as Christ forgave us and has
patience with us. Patience will allow us to endure and go on, even when we do
not feel like it.
Allow
the Potter to put you on His wheel and form you in His time, into His likeness.
Perseverance
is patience in action.
Patience
is essentially “waiting with grace.”
Patience
is waiting quietly.
Patience
is waiting eagerly.
Patience is waiting until the end.
Patience
is waiting expectantly.
Patience
is waiting joyfully.
Every
God-given vision will become real if we will only have patience.
It’s
in the valley that we tend to give up and faint. “But those who wait upon the
Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles.
They shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint” (Isaiah
40:31).
Patience
keeps you steady until the answer from God comes.
We
know from Philippians 1:6 that God will finish what he starts. And the Psalmist
encourages us to keep asking God for our request even while we’re waiting for
Him to bring it about.
“In
the morning, LORD, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before
you and wait expectantly” (Psalms 5:3).
Fruit of the Spirit
Kindness
There
are three main Greek words for kindness (chrestotes, chrestos, and
philadelphia):
NT:5544
chrestotes; from NT:5543
It
is defined as usefulness, i.e. moral excellence (in character or demeanor).
Translated in the KJV as gentleness, good (-ness), kindness.
NT:5543;
chrestos is derived from NT:5530 chraomai
Chrestos
is defined as: employed, i.e. (by implication) useful (in manner or morals):
KJV - better, easy, good (-ness), gracious, kind.
NT:5360
philadelphia; from NT:5361; fraternal affection: KJV - brotherly love
(kindness), love of the brethren.
Galatians
5:22-23 lists the fruit of the Spirit—the resulting character of someone who is
allowing the Holy Spirit to develop maturity in his or her life. The fifth
characteristic, kindness, is called “gentleness” in the King James Version.
Kindness
is goodness in action, sweetness of disposition, gentleness in dealing with
others, benevolence, affability. The word describes the ability to act for the welfare of those taxing your patience.
The Holy Spirit removes abrasive qualities from the character of one under His
control.
Greek
Scholar Rick Renner has noted that when the word chrestotes is applied
to interpersonal relationships, it conveys the idea of being adaptable to
others. Rather than harshly require everyone else to adapt to his own needs and
desires, when chrestotes is working in a believer, he seeks to become
adaptable to the needs of those who are around him. (Sparkling Gems from the
Greek, Rick Renner)
Kindness
is associated with love, goodness, mercy, graciousness, gentleness, usefulness,
thoughtfulness and being sensitive to the needs and feelings of others around
you.
The
opposite of kindness is cruelty, meanness, rudeness, sharpness, abuse,
harshness, brutality, malice, spitefulness, vindictiveness, mercilessness,
viciousness, ruthlessness and callousness. All of these negative traits are
works of the flesh, and are wicked in God’s sight.
Kindness
is a spiritual law (Proverbs 31:26).
The
law of kindness is on the tongue of the virtuous person. Kindness involves not
only your actions, but the words that come out of your mouth, and the tone of
voice used. Kindness is very careful in what you say and how you say it, so as
to not purposely offend or hurt someone else, or stir up wrath.
Kindness
is associated with wisdom, because it takes wisdom to know the right words to
speak in season to those who are weary and need encouragement.
One
of the traits the virtuous woman is known for is her wisdom, as well as the law
of kindness coming from her lips.
Love
is kind (1 Corinthians 13:4). Love is the highest law. One of the marks of
walking in the love of God is by the kindness you show to others.
To
walk in love is to also dwell in light and have life. The opposite is true if
you do not walk in love. The result will be dwelling in darkness and death of
some type. When there is a lack of kindness demonstrated in a relationship, it
brings death to the relationship.
To
be kind to others is to be helpful.
Kindness
is involved with benevolence and charity for humanity. Kind-hearted people are
very generous with their finances and resources to help mankind.
Kindness
is linked to compassion and sympathy.
Kindness
is thoughtfulness.
Kindness
is showing consideration and courtesy. Kindness is showing regard for others.
Kindness
is necessary for showing diplomacy.
Kindness
is demonstrating good manners and being polite.
Kindness
is showing patience.
Kindness
knows how to manage anger and direct it in the right way, so as to not say
damaging things to others in a fit of rage.
Kind
people know how to build others up. They live by the three E’s: Edify others,
Esteem others, and Encourage others.
Kind
people are also sweet people.
Kind
people show respect to others, as well as reverence the Lord.
Kind
individuals demonstrate a spirit of humility.
Kind
people are more soft-hearted.
To
show kindness to someone else is to show favor. It is especially noble of a
kind person to show favor to an inferior, by stooping down to help raise him or
her up.
The
Lord is known, in Nehemiah 9:17, as a God ready to pardon, gracious and
merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness, and who forsakes not.
Psalms
117:2a says, “For His merciful kindness is great toward us.”
Isaiah
54:8 says that God’s kindness and mercy is everlasting.
Isaiah
54:10 says, “For the mountains shall depart and the hills be removed, but My
kindness shall not depart from you, nor shall My covenant of peace be removed,”
says the Lord, who has mercy on you.
Colossians
3:12-15 states: “Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on
tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one
another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another;
even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do. But above all these things put
on love, which is the bond of perfection. And let the peace of God rule in your
hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful.”
Titus
3:4-7 says, “But when the kindness and the love of God our Savior toward man
appeared, not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to
His mercy He saved us, through the washing of regeneration and renewing of the
Holy Spirit, whom He poured out on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our
Savior, that having been justified by His grace we should become heirs
according to the hope of eternal life.”
Ephesians
4:29-32 says, “Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good
for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers. And do not
grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of
redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put
away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted,
forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.
2
Peter 1:8-10 lists the nine Graces of the Holy Spirit:
·
Diligence
·
Faith
·
Virtue
·
Knowledge
·
Self-control
·
Perseverance
·
Godliness
·
Brotherly kindness
·
Love
2
Peter 1:8-10 “For if these things (9 Graces of the Holy Spirit) are yours and
abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord
Jesus Christ. For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness,
and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. Therefore, brethren,
be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these
things you will never stumble.” NKJV
You
can be kind to someone without having to agree on everything.
Proverbs
16:24 says, “Pleasant (kind) words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul
and health to the bones.” NKJV
Proverbs
15:1 says, “A soft (kind) answer turns away wrath: but grievous words stir up
anger.”
To
display kindness to others is to show them honor.
Kindness
means to follow the Golden Rule. Do unto others as you would have them do unto
you (Matthew 7:12).
Kindness
means to treat others the way God has treated you. He has shown you mercy and
kindness your whole life.
If
you want to have good relationships, then cultivate kindness in your life.
Joy
is linked with the fruit of kindness. When kindness is demonstrated in
relationships, it brings joy to the relationship. Also, when you’ve done a kind
deed, the joy of the Lord fills your soul.
Proverbs
20:28 describes qualities God wants in a leader: “Mercy and truth preserve the
king, and by lovingkindness he upholds his throne.”
Kindness
is based on the mind-set described in Philippians 2:3-4: “Let nothing be done
through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem
others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his own
interests, but also for the interests of others.”
Kindness
is humbly giving of ourselves in love and mercy to others who may not be able
to give anything back, who sometimes don’t deserve it, and who frequently don’t
thank us for it.
Kindness
means a way of thinking that leads to doing thoughtful deeds for others.
Kindness
when speaking to others means to be soft-spoken rather than harsh.
Kindness
is not selfish, but is sacrificial in helping others.
Some
examples of kindness include: giving people compliments (not flattery) and
meaning it with your heart; open doors for someone; smile; say hello; help
carry something for someone; mowing someone’s lawn who is ill or elderly; sit
and talk with people who do not want to be alone; cook someone dinner; giving
to a person in need; changing someone’s flat tire.
An
act of kindness lifts people’s burdens.
Dr.
Barry Corey says this of kindness: “It’s the natural outcome of the Holy
Spirit’s presence in our lives. We exhale kindness after we inhale what’s been
breathed into us by the Spirit.”
Worldly
niceness glosses over sin, but the kindness of God leads us to repentance
(Romans 2:4).
People
have seasons in their lives when they are facing battles and they need
individuals in their life who will be kind, good and gentle to them.
Plant
seeds of kindness and you will reap a spiritual harvest of blessings.
Kindness
is contagious. Be a carrier, and spread kindness everywhere you go.
No
matter how small or big the act of kindness may be, it makes a HUGE difference
in the person or people who received your act of kindness, in the environment
you live, your workplace, and every place you are involved.
Kindness
is associated with the wisdom that is from above, which is pure, peaceable,
gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits (James 3:17).
Joseph
is a great example of kindness, goodness, and reconciliation. It was in his
power to take revenge on his brothers, but goodness and kindness won out.
Kind
words proceed from a pure and good heart. Jesus received the tongue of the
learned from His Father so He could refresh the weary soul with His Word
(Isaiah 50:4). Such tongues are in great demand for helping and comforting.
Kind words are precious.
King
David said that God’s gentleness (kindness) has made him great (Psalms 18:35).
Kindness
is the characteristic that led God to provide salvation for all of
mankind—that’s us (Titus 3:4-5; Romans 2:4, 11:22).
Kindness
leads God to give us green pastures, quiet waters, and the restoration of our
souls when we're weary (Psalm 23:2-3).
It
is God's tender care that makes Him want to gather us under His wings, to
protect us and keep us close to Him (Psalm 17:8, 36:7, 61:4; Matthew 23:37).
God
expressed kindness when He provided for Elijah and the widow of Zarephath
during a drought—and He showed more kindness later when He raised the widow's
only son from the dead (1 Kings 17:8-24).
When
Sarah exiled Hagar and Ishmael, God gave the outcasts kindness in the form of
water and hope (Genesis 21:9-21).
On
multiple occasions, kindness induced Jesus to stop what He was doing and help
others in need (Mark 6:34, 7:29, 10:46-52).
Kindness
leads the Good Shepherd to rescue us when we stray (Luke 15:3-7). In kindness
He “gathers the lambs in His arms and carries them close to His heart; He
gently leads those that have young” (Isaiah 40:11).
When
we exhibit the kindness of God, we are tender, benevolent, and useful to
others.
Every
kind action, and every kind word will have the flavor of grace in it.
Kindness
has the power to soften hearts.
It's
especially important for kindness to be accompanied by goodness. That's because
kindness without goodness can become tolerant of sin — just as goodness without
kindness can be harsh and legalistic. We show the fruit of the Spirit only as
we develop these qualities together.
Boaz
is an example of a person who showed tremendous kindness to both Ruth and
Naomi. He married Ruth and redeemed her out of poverty and childlessness, and
he provided for Naomi for the rest of her life.
The
Good Samaritan in Luke 10:25-37 was a very kind person who displayed
compassion. He also used his own resources to help the person.
The
quality of kindness will go hand in hand with the quality of love. Once the
Holy Spirit starts to transmit His love into you, the quality of kindness will
follow right along with it. It will then become much easier for you to be able
to be kind to others once the love of God starts to flow more into your
personality.
You
cannot help but be more kind to others if God’s love is flowing through you.
This is why the quality of love has to be the main quality that you really
concentrate on getting more of from the Holy Spirit. Once the love of God
starts to flow and operate through you to touch others, many of the other
fruits of the Holy Spirit will then start to follow right after it in domino
fashion.
In
2 Samuel 9:7, David said to Mephibosheth, “Do not fear, for I will surely show
you kindness for Jonathan your father's sake, and will restore to you all the
land of Saul your grandfather; and you shall eat bread at my table
continually.” David and Jonathan were best friends, and Jonathan was killed in
battle along with King Saul. When David became king, he sought out to show
kindness to Jonathan’s offspring.
This world is full of
harshness. This world is full of unkindness. When people experience a kind
gesture,
they are refreshed by it, and they are recharged by it. Philemon 7 says, “For I
have derived great joy and comfort and encouragement from your love, because
the hearts of the saints [who are your fellow Christians] have been cheered and
refreshed through you, [my] brother” (AMP). Philemon showered the brethren with
kindness and, by so doing, he had a refreshing and a restoring effect.
Kindness
is compassion in action.
Kindness
is a sincere desire for the happiness of others; goodness is the activity
calculated to advance that happiness.
Kindness
is the inner disposition, created by the Holy Spirit, that causes us to be
sensitive to the needs of others, whether physical, emotional or spiritual.
Goodness is kindness in action—words and deeds.
Kindness
is gentle and mild, and not harsh.
God’s
kindness draws us toward Him. His love, care, and grace makes us want to be
around Him more. And when we’re around Him more, we will understand our need
for Him.
As
we allow the Holy Spirit to grow more of His kindness and goodness in our
lives, we will draw others to want to know this kind and gracious God.
We
imitate God’s kindness by loving our enemies. Jesus said, “Love your enemies,
and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be
great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for He is kind to the ungrateful
and the evil” (Luke 6:35). Our kindness reflects the heart of our Father. “Be
kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ
forgave you” (Ephesians 4:32).
No
act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted. Aesop
Be
kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. Plato
Kind
words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are endless. Mother
Teresa
Kindness
is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see. Mark Twain
You
cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Constant
kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness could cause
misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate. Albert Schweitzer
You
catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar. Father of Kirk H. Neely
Kind
people have no guile in their heart, or ulterior motives. They have a pure
heart, and the Bible promises that the pure in heart shall see God (Matthew
5:8).
Are
your words kind (gentle), or do they have a sharpness?
In
kindness, there is no slander.
Kindness
is a matter of building up, not tearing down others.
Kindness
has a ripple effect. When one person is kind, kindness tends to pass forward to
others.
Being
kind to others is one way we express our devotion to Christ. In Matthew 25, in
the parable of the Last Judgment, Jesus said that we are to give to those who
are hungry, to those who are thirsty, to those who are strangers, to those who
are naked, to those who are sick, to those who are in prison. Then he adds, “As
much as you did it unto the least of these, My brethren, you did it unto Me”
(Matthew 25:40).
Perhaps
the greatest expression of our kindness is being willing to forgive others.
When
we are kind to our enemies, it is like heaping burning coals on their head
(Romans 12:20).
Kindness
has pure intentions.
Kindness
is given freely.
Kindness
leaves a lasting legacy.
Fruit of the Spirit
Goodness
Galatians 5:22-23 (TLB) says,
“But when the Holy Spirit controls our lives, He will produce this kind of
fruit in us: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, GOODNESS, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”
The Webster’s Dictionary
definition for goodness is:
·
The state or quality of being good
·
Moral excellence; virtue
·
Kindly feeling, kindness, generosity, joy in being good
·
The best part of anything; Essence; Strength
·
General character recognized in quality or conduct
Greek words for “good” include:
Agathos
(Strong’s #18) = “good” in its character or constitution, is beneficial in its
effect; (a) it is used of things physical, e.g., a tree, Matthew 7:17; ground,
Luke 8:8; (b) in a moral sense, frequently of persons and things. God is
essentially, absolutely and consummately “good”.
Kalos
(Strong’s #2570) = denotes that which is intrinsically “good”, and so, “goodly,
fair, beautiful,” as (a) of that which is well adapted to its circumstances or
ends, e.g., fruit, Matthew 3:10; a tree, 12:33; ground, 13:8,23; fish, 13:48;
the Law, Romans 7:16; 1 Timothy 1:8; every creature of God, 1 Timothy 4:4; a
faithful minister of Christ and the doctrine he teaches, 4:6; (b) of that which
is ethically good, right, noble, honorable.
Chrestos
(Strong’s #5543) = That which is pleasant, kindly, gracious, good.
Chrestotes
(Strong’s #5544) = Denotes “goodness” in the sense of what is upright,
righteous, kindness of heart or act, gentleness, goodness expressing itself
through actions, grace, tenderness, compassion. This Greek word does not
express God’s severity when it comes to His goodness.
Agathosune
(Strong’s #19) = Goodness expressed more from Christ’s sterner qualities and
hatred of evil, such as cleansing the temple.
A good person is not only kind
and compassionate, but also has an intolerance for sin and evil (and may thus
come across as stern).
King Hezekiah is an example of
the fruit of goodness. When he took the throne in Judah, the temple of God was
in disrepair, and idols were set up across the land. So Hezekiah made things
right.
He reinstated the priests of God
(2 Chronicles 29:5); he brought people from all Israel to celebrate Passover (2
Chronicles 30:5); he removed the idols (2 Chronicles 31:1). The Bible says that
Hezekiah “did what was good, right and true before the LORD his God,” and
everything he did, “he did with all his heart and prospered” (2 Chronicles
31:20–21). This is goodness: understanding what is right and making it happen.
Goodness speaks to our character
and the desire to be more like God. The word “goodness” means to be like God.
As we remain in Christ, and the fruit of kindness continues to grow in us, our
nature will change more and more to look like Jesus. Philippians 2:13 says, “For God is working in you, giving you the
desire and the power to do what pleases Him.”
The Bible talks about the
goodness of God as part of His character. It’s not something He does; it’s who
He is. As we continue to become new creations, becoming more like Christ,
goodness can become more of a character trait in us, too.
Instead of being motivated to do
good because we want accolades or rewards, we do good because we’ve allowed God
to change our hearts. We choose obedience to God and bring honor to him. We
choose to be kind and to serve others because we understand all that God has
given to us.
Second
Thessalonians 1:11-12 says, “So we keep on praying for
you, asking our God to enable you to live a life worthy of His call. May He
give you the power to accomplish all the good things your faith prompts you to
do. Then the name of our Lord Jesus will be honored because of the way you
live, and you will be honored along with Him. This is all made possible because
of the grace of our God and Lord, Jesus Christ.”
Goodness is a heartfelt, moral quality of desiring and being of benefit to
others according to God's will. It is a moral quality because goodness can have
no part in any kind of evil. Thus, its motivations and actions must be morally
pure. Goodness must be good.
Kindness is a category and
demonstration of goodness. It is goodness without any harshness only
gentleness, while goodness itself is the larger quality and behavior and
encompasses both the ability to be soft and kind, as well as, the ability to be
tough, stern, and firm when good calls for it. For example, we see Christ's
goodness in His sternness when cleansing the temple and denouncing of scribes
and Pharisees because God's good purpose was best served by confronting these
evils. The moral nature of God which revealed in His moral law defines the
standard of goodness.
Psalms 34:8 “O taste and see that
the Lord is good: blessed is the man that trusts in him.”
God’s goodness is His Glory.
Exodus 33:19 “And he said, I will make all my goodness pass before thee, and I
will proclaim the Name of the Lord before thee; and will be gracious to whom I
will be gracious, and will shew mercy on whom I will shew mercy.”
Exodus 34:6-7 tells us: “And the
Lord passed by before him, and proclaimed, The Lord, The Lord God, merciful and
gracious, longsuffering, and abundant in goodness and truth, keeping mercy for
thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin, and that will by no
means clear the guilty; visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children,
and upon the children's children, unto the third and to the fourth generation.”
Psalms 23:6 “Surely goodness and
mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of
the Lord forever.”
As we patiently wait on God, we
see God’s goodness in our lives. Psalms 27:13-14 says, “I had fainted, unless I
had believed to see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait on
the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say,
on the Lord.”
Psalms 31:19 “Oh how great is Thy
goodness, which Thou hast laid up for them that fear Thee; which Thou hast
wrought for them that trust in Thee before the sons of men!”
Psalms 65:4 “Blessed is the man
You choose, and cause to approach You, that he may dwell in Your courts. We
shall be satisfied with the goodness of Your house, of Your holy temple.”
God demonstrates His goodness by
revealing Himself to us as Provider and bringing prosperity into our lives.
Psalms 65:11 “You crown the year with Your goodness, and Your paths drip with
abundance.”
Psalms 107:8-9 “Oh, that men
would give thanks to the Lord for His goodness, and for His wonderful works to
the children of men! For He satisfies the longing soul, and fills the hungry
soul with goodness.”
Jeremiah 31:12 “Therefore they
shall come and sing in the height of Zion, streaming to the goodness of the
Lord — for wheat (Word of God) and new wine (Joy) and oil (Anointing), for the
young of the flock and the herd (milk and meat of the Word); their souls shall
be like a well-watered garden (satiated with His Presence, rivers of living
water flowing), and they shall sorrow no more at all.”
Jeremiah 31:14 “I will satiate
the soul of the priests with abundance, and My people shall be satisfied with
My goodness, says the Lord.”
The goodness of God leads us to
repentance. Romans 2:4 “Or do you despise the riches of His goodness,
forbearance, and longsuffering, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you
to repentance?”
Romans 11:22 “Notice how God is
both kind and severe. He is very hard on those who disobey, but very good to
you if you continue to love and trust Him.” TLB
Psalms 37:3-5 “Trust in the Lord,
and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed.
Delight thyself also in the Lord; and he shall give thee the desires of thine
heart. Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust also in Him; and He shall bring it
to pass.”
Psalms 37:23-24 “The steps of a
good man are ordered by the Lord, and He delights in his way. Though he fall,
he shall not be utterly cast down; for the Lord upholds him with His hand.”
Psalms 84:11 “For the Lord God is
a sun and shield; the Lord will give grace and glory; no good thing will He
withhold from those who walk uprightly.”
Psalms 86:5 “For You, Lord, are
good, and ready to forgive, and abundant in mercy to all those who call upon
You.”
Psalms 100:4-5 “Enter into His
gates with thanksgiving, and into His courts with praise. Be thankful to Him,
and bless His name. For the Lord is good; His mercy is everlasting, and His
truth endures to all generations.”
Psalms 103:2-5
2 Bless the Lord, O my soul,
And forget not all His benefits:
3 Who forgives all your
iniquities,
Who heals all your diseases,
4 Who redeems your life from
destruction,
Who crowns you with
lovingkindness and tender mercies,
5 Who satisfies your mouth with
good things,
So that your youth is renewed
like the eagle's.
Psalms 107:1-2 “Give thanks to
the Lord, for He is good! For His mercy endures forever. Let the redeemed of
the Lord say so!”
Psalms 112:5-6 “A good man deals
graciously and lends; he will guide his affairs with discretion. Surely he will
never be shaken.”
Psalms 135:3 “Praise the Lord,
for the Lord is good; sing praises to His name, for it is pleasant.”
Psalms 147:1 “Praise the Lord!
For it is good to sing praises to our God; for it is pleasant, and praise is
beautiful.”
Proverbs 3:27 “Do not withhold
good from those to whom it is due,
When it is in the power of your
hand to do so.”
Proverbs 12:2 “A good man obtains
favor from the Lord, but a man of wicked intentions He will condemn.”
Proverbs 13:22 “A good man leaves
an inheritance to his children's children, but the wealth of the sinner is
stored up for the righteous.”
Proverbs 15:30 “A cheerful look
brings joy to the heart, and good news gives health to the bones.” NIV
Proverbs 17:22 “A cheerful heart
is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” NIV
Proverbs 18:22 “He who finds a
wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.” NIV
Proverbs 25:25 “Like cold water
to a weary soul is good news from a distant land.” NIV
Proverbs 31:10-12
10 A wife of noble character who
can find?
She is worth far more than
rubies.
11 Her husband has full
confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
NIV
Isaiah 61:1 “The Spirit of the
Sovereign Lord is on me, because the Lord has anointed me to preach good news
to the poor.” NIV
Lamentations 3:25-26 “The Lord is
good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him; it is good to
wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.” NIV
Matthew 5:16 “In the same way,
let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise
your Father in heaven.” NIV
Matthew 7:9-12
9
Which of you, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone?
10 Or if he asks for a fish, will
give him a snake?
11 If you, then, though you are
evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your
Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!
12 So in everything, do to others
what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.
NIV
Matthew 7:17-20
17 Likewise every good tree bears
good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit.
18 A good tree cannot bear bad
fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit.
19 Every tree that does not bear
good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.
20 Thus, by their fruit you will
recognize them. NIV
Matthew 12:35-37
35 The good man brings good
things out of the good stored up in him, and the evil man brings evil things
out of the evil stored up in him.
36 But I tell you that men will
have to give account on the day of judgment for every careless word they have
spoken.
37 For by your words you will be
acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned. NIV
The seed is the Word of God. The
Bible talks about the condition of people’s heart (or ground or soil). For
those who have good soil, the Word produces in their lives (at least 30-fold,
but then up to 100-fold). Matthew 13:8 “Still other seed fell on good soil,
where it produced a crop — a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown.” NIV
In the parable of the talents
given to each servant (according to their ability), the ones who were given 5
and 10 invested the talents and came back with even more talents. They were
commended as being good and faithful servants. This parable speaks to our lives
today. At the end of our life we should have more talents than when we first
began. We want to hear the Master say, “Well done, My good and faithful
servant.” Matthew 25:23 “His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful
servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of
many things. Come and share your Master's happiness!’”
In Acts 11:24, Barnabas was a
good man, full of the Holy Spirit and faith, and a great number of people were
brought to the Lord. He mentored Paul after he was converted.
Romans 12:21 “Do not be overcome
by evil, but overcome evil with good.” NIV
Romans 15:2 “Each of us should
please his neighbor for his good, to build him up.” NIV
Ephesians 2:10 “For we are God's
workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in
advance for us to do.” NIV
Philippians 1:6 “Being confident
of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion
until the day of Christ Jesus.” NIV
Colossians 1:10 “That you may
walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work
and increasing in the knowledge of God.” NKJV
In 1 Timothy 1:19, it mentions
having a good conscience before God. Also see Hebrews 13:18 and 1 Peter 3:16.
In 1 Timothy 6:12, it says to
fight the good fight of faith. This is a good kind of fight. In 2 Timothy 4:7,
the Apostle Paul said that he had fought the good fight of faith, and that he
had completed his race.
In Titus 2:14, we are to be
zealous of good works.
Faith is the substance of things
hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. For by faith, the elders obtained a
good report, and so do we. Faith always has a good report. Hebrews 11:1-2
James 1:17 “Every good gift and
every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights,
with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning.” NKJV
There are individual sins,
according to James 4:17. “Therefore, to him who knows to do good and does not
do it, to him it is sin.”
Acts 10:38 “How God anointed
Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Ghost and with power: who went about doing
good, and healing all that were oppressed of the devil; for God was with Him.”
Fruit of the Spirit
Faithfulness
Galatians
5:22-23 says, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering,
kindness, goodness, FAITHFULNESS,
gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.” NKJV
The
Greek word for “faithful” or “faithfulness” is pistos (Strong’s #4103). It is defined as: trustworthy, trustful,
believing, sure, true. The word pistos is derived from the Greek word peitho
(Strong’s #3982), which means “to convince by argument, to assent to evidence
or authority, to rely on by inward certainty.”
The
King James Version uses the word “faith” in Galations 5:22-23 rather than
faithfulness. The Greek word for “faith” is pistis (Strong’s #4102). The definition includes: from NT:3982;
persuasion, i.e. credence; moral conviction (of religious truth, or the
truthfulness of God or a religious teacher), especially reliance upon Christ
for salvation; abstractly, constancy in such profession; by extension, the
system of religious (Gospel) truth itself. Also, translated as fidelity,
assurance, belief, believe.
1
John 1:9 tells us “If we confess our sins, He (Jesus) is faithful and just to
forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” KJV
In
Revelation 1:5 Jesus is called the “Faithful Witness”, and in Revelation 3:14
He is called the “Faithful and True Witness”.
In
Revelation 19:11, He that sat upon the white horse is called “Faithful and
True”, and a few verses later it reveals that Jesus is the King of kings and
Lord of lords, and the Faithful and True is Him.
In
the parable of the talents, we are admonished to be like those who invested and
multiplied their talents and presented it to the Master at the end of their
lives on earth, and received rewards. Matthew 25:21 says, “His Lord said unto
him, Well done, thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a
few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of
thy Lord.”
He
that is faithful in that which is least is faithful also in much: and he that
is unjust in the least is unjust also in much. Luke 16:10
If
you are untrustworthy about worldly wealth, who will trust you with the true
riches of heaven? And if you are not faithful with other people's money, why
should you be entrusted with money of your own? Luke 16:11-12
Luke
19:16-17 is about the man who was given talents, and he invested and gained
even more talents. The first man reported a tremendous gain-ten times as much
as the original amount! “Fine!” the king exclaimed. “You are a good man. You
have been faithful with the little I entrusted to you, and as your reward, you
shall be governor of ten cities.” TLB
God
is faithful, by whom you were called into the fellowship of His Son, Jesus
Christ our Lord. 1 Corinthians 1:9
Timothy
was Paul’s beloved and faithful son in the Lord. 1 Corinthians 4:17
1
Corinthians 10:13 says, “No temptation has overtaken you except such as is
common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond
what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape,
that you may be able to bear it.”
Galatians
3:9 says, “So then they which be of faith are blessed with faithful Abraham.”
Tychicus
was a beloved brother and faithful minister in the Lord in the early church.
Ephesians 6:21
Others
in the early church who were noted as being faithful servants include the
brethren at Colosse; Epaphras; Onesimus and Sylvanus. Colossians 1:2,7; 4:7,9;
1 Peter 5:12
1
Thessalonians 5:24 says, “Faithful is He Who is calling you [to Himself] and
utterly trustworthy, and He will also do it [fulfill His call by hallowing and
keeping you].” AMP
2
Thessalonians 3:3 says, “Yet the Lord is faithful, and He will strengthen [you]
and set you on a firm foundation and guard you from the evil [one].” AMP The KJV says that He will stablish you.
God
places people into the ministry who He counts as faithful (1 Timothy 1:12).
1
Timothy 3:11 tells us that deacons’ wives must be reverent, not slanderers,
temperate, faithful in all things. NKJV
2
Timothy 2:2 mentions that those apt to teach are faithful ministers.
2
Timothy 2:13 says, “If we are faithless, He remains faithful.”
A
bishop must have faithful children, not accused of dissipation or
insubordination. Titus 1:5-9
The
Word of God is considered to be faithful, and has the power to transform
people. Titus 1:9
Hebrews
2:17-18 “Therefore, in all things He had to be made like His brethren, that He
might be a merciful and faithful High Priest in things pertaining to God, to
make propitiation for the sins of the people. For in that He Himself has
suffered, being tempted, He is able to aid those who are tempted.”
Hebrews
3:1-6
1
Therefore, holy brethren, partakers of the heavenly calling, consider the
Apostle and High Priest of our confession, Christ Jesus,
2
who was faithful to Him who appointed Him, as Moses also was faithful in all
His house.
3
For this One has been counted worthy of more glory than Moses, inasmuch as He
who built the house has more honor than the house.
4
For every house is built by someone, but He who built all things is God.
5
And Moses indeed was faithful in all His house as a servant, for a testimony of
those things which would be spoken afterward,
6
but Christ as a Son over His own house, whose house we are if we hold fast the
confidence and the rejoicing of the hope firm to the end.
Hebrews
10:23 “Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who
promised is faithful.”
Hebrews
11:11 “By faith Sarah herself also received strength to conceive seed, and she
bore a child when she was past the age, because she judged Him faithful who had
promised.”
God
is faithful to keep His covenant and to fulfill all of His promises in our
lives. We just have to believe and receive.
God
will give the crown of life to those who are faithful until death. Revelation
2:10
In
Revelation 2:13 Antipas was noted as a faithful martyr.
Revelation
17:14 “These will make war with the Lamb, and the Lamb will overcome them, for
He is Lord of lords and King of kings; and those who are with Him are called,
chosen, and faithful.”
Revelation
21:5 Then He who sat on the throne said, “Behold, I make all things new.” And
He said to me, “Write, for these words are true and faithful.”
Numbers
12:6-8
6
And he said, Hear now my words: If there be a prophet among you, I the Lord
will make myself known unto him in a vision, and will speak unto him in a
dream.
7
My servant Moses is not so, who is faithful in all mine house.
8
With him will I speak mouth to mouth, even apparently, and not in dark
speeches; and the similitude of the Lord shall he behold: wherefore then were
ye not afraid to speak against my servant Moses?
Deuteronomy
7:9 says, “Know therefore that the Lord thy God, He is God, the faithful God,
which keepeth covenant and mercy with them that love Him and keep His
commandments to a thousand generations.”
Samuel
was considered to be a faithful priest, and obedient to the Lord. 1 Samuel
2:35.
David
was considered to be faithful and favored in all of Saul’s house. 1 Samuel
22:14
Nehemiah
gave the charge of Jerusalem to his brother Hanani, and to Hananiah the leader
of the citadel, for Hananiah was a faithful man and feared God more than many.
Nehemiah 7:2
Nehemiah
appointed treasurers who were faithful men. Nehemiah 13:13
Psalms
31:23 says, “For the Lord preserves the faithful.”
God’s
eyes are upon the faithful of the land. Psalms 101:6
All
of the Lord’s commands and testimonies are faithful. Psalms 119:86,138
Proverbs
11:13 tells us: “A talebearer reveals secrets, but he who is of a faithful
spirit conceals a matter.”
Proverbs
13:17 says, “A wicked messenger falls into trouble, but a faithful ambassador
brings health.”
A
faithful witness does not lie, but a false witness will utter lies. Proverbs
14:5
Faithful
people are rare treasures. Proverbs 20:6 says, “Many a man proclaims his own
loving-kindness and goodness, but a faithful man who can find?”
Proverbs
25:13 says, “Like the cold of snow [brought from the mountains] in the time of
harvest, so is a faithful messenger to those who send him; for he refreshes the
life of his masters.”
Faithful
are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are lavish and
deceitful. Proverbs 27:6
A
faithful man shall abound with blessings, but he who makes haste to be rich [at
any cost] shall not go unpunished. Proverbs 28:20
In
Isaiah 1:26, Jerusalem is called “the city of righteousness” and “the faithful
city”.
Your
mercy, O Lord, is in the heavens; Your faithfulness reaches to the clouds.
Psalms 36:5
I
will sing of the mercies of the Lord forever; with my mouth will I make known
Your faithfulness to all generations. Psalms 89:1
The
Lord shall be praised in the congregation of the saints for His faithfulness.
Psalms 89:5
The
Lord’s lovingkindness is with us every morning, and His faithfulness at night.
Psalms 92:2
The
Lord’s faithfulness is for all generations. Psalms 119:90
Lamentations
3:21-23 says:
21
This I recall to my mind, therefore I have hope.
22
Through the Lord's mercies we are not consumed,
Because
His compassions fail not.
23
They are new every morning;
Great
is Your faithfulness.
Faithfulness
comes from a place of trust and loyalty.
Faithfulness
is trustworthiness and reliability.
If
referring to the faithfulness of God or Jesus, it refers to steadfastness,
honesty, firmness, and God's utter dependability based on His unchanging
character. If we mean human faithfulness, it refers to our steady allegiance to
God and our trust in Him.
Pastor
Kris Belfils (www.wordpress.com) says
the following about faithfulness:
“A faithful person knows what God has put in their heart, and
even though many times they feel like quitting, they don’t give up.
A faithful person is committed to doing whatever God tells them to
do no matter what it costs them personally.
A faithful person sees something all the way through to the end.
A faithful person understands that no matter where they may go to
church they won’t like everything that happens. Stay where God has placed you.
The way we grow is to stay planted in one place.
A faithful person arrives at their commitments early or at least on
time. A foolish person is constantly late.
A faithful person is someone we can depend on — someone who shows up
where they say they will be at the time they say they will be there, someone
whom you can count on to do something they say they will do for you. Be a
faithful person!
If
you want to be used by God, or if you are being used by God and want to be used
by God in a greater way, then always remember this: God only promotes faithful
men and women. God promotes those who have proven themselves to be faithful.
Then, when you prove yourself to be faithful in one area or level, God will promote
you to another level.”
Fruit of the Spirit
Meekness
There
are two Greek words for meekness (praiotes and prautes):
NT:4236
praiotes (prah-ot'-ace); from NT:4235; gentleness, by implication, humility.
NT:4240
prautes (prah-oo'-tace); from NT:4239; mildness, i.e. (by implication)
humility.
The
Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines meek as:
·
Enduring injury with patience and without resentment.
·
Submissive
·
Not violent
Meekness
is not weakness, but strength under control.
Meekness
also is stated in the Thesaurus as: modest, compliant, quiet, lowly, tame,
disciplined, cultivated, friendly, approachable, obedient, peaceful, refined,
educated, developed, sophisticated, cultured, nurturer, encourager, helper,
plowed (soft and pliable heart, stony heart removed), polished, distinguished,
gracious, humble, moderate, reasonable, gentle, kind, mellow, benign,
easy-going, calm, pleasant, self-controlled, nice, thoughtful, discreet,
uncomplicated, simple.
Jesus
is the ultimate example of a man with a meek spirit. Matthew 11:29-30 says,
“Take My yoke upon you, and learn of Me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and
ye shall find rest unto your souls. For My yoke is easy, and My burden is
light.”
The
first time Jesus came to this earth as King, He came riding on a colt, being
very meek and humble (Matthew 21:5). When He comes again the second time, He
will come as the Mighty Warrior riding on a white stallion (Revelation
19:11-16).
Moses
was the meekest human upon the face of the earth ever recorded in Scripture
(Numbers 12:3).
The
meek shall inherit the earth (Matthew 5:5).
Peter
admonishes the women to not let adornment be merely outward, but also the inner
incorruptible beauty of a meek and quiet spirit, which is precious in God’s
sight (1 Peter 3:4). To have a meek spirit is considered to be incorruptible
beauty. Natural beauty fades away, but inner beauty is lasting.
The
meek shall eat and be satisfied. They shall praise the Lord. They diligently
seek for, inquire of, and require Him as their greatest need (Psalms 22:26).
The
meek He will guide in judgment (knowing and doing what is right), and the meek
will He teach His ways (Psalms 25:9).
The
meek are not only acquainted with the acts of God, but also with the ways of
God.
The
meek have a teachable spirit.
The
meek delight themselves in the abundance of peace (Psalms 37:11). The meek are
peace lovers.
The
Lord lifts up the meek, but the wicked He casts down to the ground (Psalms
147:6).
The
Lord takes pleasure in His people. He beautifies the meek with salvation
(Psalms 149:4).
To
get born again, you must have a meek and humble spirit in order to acknowledge
that you are lost, are a sinner, and need a Savior— and to confess that Jesus
is Lord.
The
meek are joyful individuals. They increase their joy in the Lord and rejoice in
the Holy One of Israel (Isaiah 29:19).
Jesus
said that the Spirit of the Lord was upon Him, to preach good tidings to the
meek (Isaiah 61:1).
When
the meek of the earth seek the Lord, and His righteousness, they are hidden
from God’s judgment (Zephaniah 2:3).
Meekness
is associated with righteousness (Psalms 45:4; Zephaniah 2:3; 1 Timothy 6:11).
Meekness
is also linked with love, gentleness and longsuffering (1 Corinthians 4:21;
Galations 5:22-23; Ephesians 4:2; Colossians 3:12; 1 Timothy 6:11).
When
leaders have to correct someone, they are not to come with a rod, but in love
and a spirit of meekness (1 Corinthians 4:21).
Galatians
6:1 says, “Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual,
restore such a one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou
also be tempted.”
Colossians
3:12-13 tells us: “Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved,
bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;
forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel
against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.”
We
are commanded to pursue meekness in 1 Timothy 6:11.
The
servant of the Lord must not strive, debate or argue with people over doctrines
or Scriptures; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, showing
meekness to those who oppose them. 2 Timothy 2:24-25
James
3:13-18 states:
13
Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show by good conduct that his
works are done in the meekness of wisdom. 14 But if you have bitter envy and
self-seeking in your hearts, do not boast and lie against the truth.
15
This wisdom does not descend from above, but is earthly, sensual, demonic.
16
For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are
there.
17
But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle,
willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without
hypocrisy.
18
Now the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace. NKJV
1
Peter 3:15-16 says, “But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts, and always be
ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is
in you, with meekness and fear; having a good conscience.
Rick
Renner, Greek theologian, says: “The Greek word for “meekness” here does not mean weakness, but rather it has to do
with humility. When you have humility
you have a teachable spirit and you esteem and regard others more highly than
yourself. You are humble toward God and man. You do not promote yourself, but
you exalt the Lord in everything.
When
you are humble you are teachable. You receive God’s Word for
your own life and allow it to discipline and correct you. You hear the Word and
you do it. When you are humble you allow the Holy Spirit to lead, guide and
teach you without excuses or rebellion. You obey the Spirit instantly and
precisely. You conduct your life in the way that the Word and the Lord leads
you to.
Meekness
is strength with a tender touch.
Meekness
includes voluntarily “submitting to one another” (Ephesians 5:21). In a long
passage, Peter spoke of the importance of submission of all kinds—Christians
toward government (1 Peter 2:13), servants toward masters (1 Peter 2:18),
Christ’s example of submitting to His tormentors (1 Peter 2:21-25) and wives
toward their husbands (1 Peter 3:1).
Meekness:
·
Makes a person “savable” (Psalms 149:4)
·
Makes a person “teachable” (Psalms 25:9; James 1:21) – changeable!
·
Makes a person “useable” – God cannot use somebody who is not soft.
·
Makes a person “blessable” (Matthew 5:5) Meekness is the soil of joy.
Meekness
enables a person to bear patiently those insults and injuries he receives at
the hand of others. It makes him ready to accept instruction from the least of
the saints. It allows him to endure provocation without being inflamed by it.
He remains cool when others become heated. Meek people seek no private revenge;
they leave that to God's sense of justice while they seek to remain true in
their calling and meet God's standards.
The
meek are among those so favored that they will share in Jesus' inheritance of
the earth.
In
the Greek language, the word prautes (“meekness”) conveys the idea of a
high and noble ideal to be aspired to in one’s life. Although an injurious
situation may normally produce a rash or angry outburst, a meek person is
controlled by kindness, gentleness, mildness, or even friendliness.
The
word “meekness” pictures a strong-willed person who has learned to submit his
will to a higher authority. He isn’t weak; he is controlled. He may in
fact possess a strong will and a powerful character; he may be a person who has
his own opinion. But this person has learned the secret of submitting to those
who are over him. Thus, he is one who knows how to bring his will under
control. In rare instances, the word prautes (“meekness”) was used
to describe wild animals that had become tame because it correctly conveyed the
idea of a wild, fierce will under control.
This
means when the Spirit is producing meekness in your life, you are controlled
even in difficult circumstances. Rather than fly into a rage and throw a temper
tantrum, you are able to remain silent and keep your emotions and temper under
control. If you find yourself in a situation that you fiercely believe is
wrong, you are still able to stay silent until the appropriate moment to speak
or until you have been asked for your opinion. You know how to control yourself
and your emotions.
In
addition to these meanings, the word “meekness” was also used in a medical sense
to denote soothing medication to calm the angry mind. A meek person
doesn’t project the countenance of one who is offended, upset, angry, or
reactive to insults or injuries. Instead, he is so gentle and mild
in his response that he becomes soothing medicine for the angry or upset
soul, or for a troublesome or unsettling situation.
So
take a moment to examine the way you respond to insults, injuries, or volatile
situations. Do you find that you are often a contributor to a heated and
potentially explosive atmosphere? Or does your presence bring peace into the
midst of the conflict? When others say or do something that could offend you,
do you quickly retort with a harsh answer, or are you able to control your
emotions and temper, remaining silent until a more appropriate time to speak?”
Rick
Renner, www.renner.org/meekness-and-temperance
says,
Steps
to developing meekness:
·
Have a teachable spirit
·
Be submissive to the will of God
·
Be considerate to others and committed to unity
Fruit of the Spirit
Self-Control
Galatians
5:22-23 says, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering,
kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, SELF-CONTROL.” NKJV
The
King James Version uses the word “temperance” for self-control.
Temperance
is defined in the Strong’s Greek Concordance as: NT:1466 egkrateia “self-control or continence”; from NT:1468 egkrates “strong in a thing (masterful);
i.e. (figuratively and reflexively) self-controlled in appetite, etc;
temperate.”
Some
synonyms for “temperance” include: abstinence, self-restraint, sobriety,
soberness, moderation, self-denial, self-discipline, self-control, limit, curb,
restriction, balance, reasonableness.
The
Bible warns of drunkenness or intoxication from drinking excessive wine
(Ephesians 5:18; 1 Peter 4:3). However, just a little bit is good for the
stomach (1 Timothy 5:23).
Jesus
condemned the Pharisees for having an appearance of righteousness, but were
guilty of gluttony and self-indulgence, as well as even worse things (Matthew
23:25). They were likened to cups that were washed on the outside, but on the
inside were unclean.
Greek
Theologian Rick Renner says the following about temperance (from the online
devotional of the fruit of the Spirit – meekness and temperance www.renner.org/meekness-and-temperance
“The
word “temperance” comes from the Greek words en and kratos. The
word en means in, and the word kratos is the Greek word
for power. When compounded into one word, these two Greek words form the
word enkrateia, which literally means in control and denotes power
over one’s self; hence, it is often translated as the word “self-control.”
It suggests the control or restraint of one’s passions, appetites,
and desires.
Just
as a meek individual can control his attitude, a person with temperance has
power over his appetites, physical urges, passions, and desires. Because the
Holy Spirit has produced temperance in his life, he is able to say no to
overeating, no to overindulging in fleshly activities, no to any excesses
in the physical realm. A person with temperance maintains a life of moderation
and control. The word enkrateia — “temperance” — could be
thus translated as restraint, moderation, discipline, balance, temperance, or
self-control.
You
can see how opposite temperance is to the works of the flesh. If the flesh is
allowed to have its way, it will over-worry, overwork, overeat, overindulge,
and literally run itself to death. But when a person is controlled by the Holy
Spirit, God’s Spirit produces in him a discipline over the physical realm that
helps him sustain his physical condition, stay in good health, remain free from
sin, and live a life that is moderate and balanced.”
Rick
Renner goes on to talk about financial temperance in his online devotional. www.renner.org/devotionals/temperance
“The
ability to exercise self-restraint (enkrateia)
is absolutely crucial in all arenas of your life, including your personal
finances, diet and physical exercise, productivity at work, or any other area
where discipline is required in order to progress. However, because so many
believers struggle with self-control in the realm of finances, I want to
address this specific issue. If you will allow the Holy Spirit to work in this
very important area of your life, I know
He will help you become financially
temperate and very prosperous as a result.
Managing
your personal finances in a fiscally responsible manner is an essential part of
being a person through whom God can work effectively. By doing so, you remain
free from the bondage of unnecessary, frivolous debt and thus are able to
pursue your calling without the hindrance and distraction of crushing financial
obligations to creditors slowing you down. However, if you repeatedly succumb
to your flesh and use your credit card to purchase items you don’t need and
can’t afford, you will inevitably end up swamped in debt and financially
ruined.
The
Holy Spirit wants to help you be temperate in the realm of your finances, as
well as in every other realm. So once you’ve made a commitment to exercise
self-control (enkrateia)
and stay debt-free, know that with His help and by His grace, you can stick to your commitment!
If
you’ll listen to the Holy Spirit, He’ll help you put together a plan to
exercise temperance in your life. If you’ll stick with His plan, He will lead
you to a place of glorious financial freedom and will help you bring discipline
and self-control to every other area of your life. When you get to this place,
you’ll never want to go back! Denise and I have learned firsthand that the
fruit of temperance not
only provides freedom — it gives peace! I’m praying for you to make the
decision to let the Holy Spirit develop this fruit in your life in a greater
measure than ever before — starting
today!”
Chapter 22
Biblical Colors
Here
is a list of Biblical meanings of colors (as found in Moses' Tabernacle, the
colors of gems in the breastplate of the Ephod, and other Scriptures throughout
the Bible).
Blue = Heavenly, sky, Divinity,
God, revelation, base or foundation of God’s Throne (made of sapphire – Exodus
24:10), river of life, robe of the high priest, Presence (Shekinah) of God,
angels (especially the cherubim). Blue was the main color used in the Tabernacle,
Ephod, Veil and Curtains. Sapphire is the stone for the tribe of Simeon, and
Simeon means: “hearing, to hear intelligently with implication of attention and
obedience”.
Purple = Amethyst (tribe of
Benjamin – “son of my right hand”), Royalty, Kingly, Majesty, Prosperity,
Anointing (color of purple/red grapes to make wine, and wine speaks of the
Anointing and joy). Gospel of Matthew with Jesus portrayed as King of the Jews;
one of the colors of the High Priest’s robe; one of the colors of the Ephod;
purple used in the Tabernacle for the Veil, Curtains, Gate and Door Hangings.
Red = Lion of Judah (sardius
gemstone), royalty, kingly, majesty, authority, power, Blood of Jesus,
redemption through Jesus' Blood, a cleansed conscience by the Blood of the
Lamb. Red used in the Ephod, Veil, Curtains, Gate and Door Hangings of the
Tabernacle, as well as the roof of ram’s skins dyed red.
Green = Thriving, flourishing,
healthy, healing, vibrant, life, satiation, Throne of God (emerald), the Glory
of God, peacefulness, rest (He causes me to lie down in green pastures, He
restores my soul). Emerald is the stone for the tribe of Zebulon, meaning
“dwelling”. The territory of Zebulon was fertile soil.
Brown = the color of wood and
wood speaks of humanity; earthly; dried out; barren.
White = Purity, cleansing,
righteousness, Bride of Christ, sanctification, blameless, virtuous.
Yellow = This color is not
specifically mentioned in the Bible, but believed by many Bible teachers to
refer to the mind, soul, illumination and enlightenment. Yellow is a color of
light, like the sunshine.
It
takes the Word of God to renew the mind, and Psalms 119:130 says that the
entrance of God's Word brings light and understanding.
The
Urim and Thummim were stones used in
the Old Testament to determine the will of God on matters because the only
thing man had was carnal understanding (only a select few, such as the office
of the prophets, priests and kings, had the Holy Spirit). Depending on a yes or
no answer, the stones would light up like a yellowish/white light. After the
casting of lots in choosing Matthias to replace Judas Iscariot, and when the
Holy Spirit was poured out on the Day of Pentecost in Acts 2, the Urim and
Thummim were no longer necessary, or ever mentioned again in Scripture, because
now all believers have access to being filled with the Holy Spirit and hearing
His Voice.
The
gemstone topaz is close to the color yellow. Topaz is the stone for the tribe
of Issachar. This tribe was known for having understanding of the times and
seasons of God.
Amber = the Glory of God
(Ezekiel 1); the Son of Man (Jesus) in Ezekiel 1 and Revelation 1-2; also
associated with the seraphims who have the appearance of fire. Honor; Royalty;
Wealth; Of the highest refining standard and greatest worth.
Colors of Fire = Fire is a mixture of
oranges/yellows/red. The hottest flame is blue and green. Speaks of the Holy
Spirit, the Glory of God, sanctification, purging the dross, refinement,
purification, the seraphim, the wheels within the wheels (a type of cherubim or
living creatures mentioned in Ezekiel who travel at tremendous speeds in
circular motions and have the appearance of fire).
Silver = Redemption, a vessel of
honor (although less purified than gold). A silver cord ran along the top of
the fence of the Tabernacle.
Gold = Heavenly, Divinity, a
vessel of honor, eternal, covenant, cherubim (guarding the Ark in the Holy of
Holies), golden lampstand (Seven-branched Menorah), Ark of the Covenant
overlaid with gold, Mercy Seat made of solid gold.
Brass = Judgment (brazen altar);
of this earth and under the law of sin and corruption; brass tarnishes quickly
and has to be polished often to be restored.
Crystal = Transparent, reflecting
every color of the rainbow; Sea of Glass in Heaven (an ocean), also known as
the Crystal Sea; River of Life.
Jasper = Similar to a diamond,
reflecting every color of the rainbow; New Jerusalem.
Rainbow = God's covenant with us,
God's faithfulness, God keeps His promises, the Glory of God reflects like a
rainbow, jasper and other gemstones in heaven giving off a rainbow, many
rainbows in heaven. The rainbow represents the nations of this world and of heaven.
Rainbows issue out of the saints in Heaven. Rainbows also speak of God’s
faithfulness to keep His covenant and promises.
Curtain
at the gate in Moses’ Tabernacle (white linen with blue, purple and red
embroidery).
The
Colors Correspond to the four Gospels:
Matthew
= Purple, Royalty, Jesus portrayed as King of the Jews
Mark
= Red, Blood of Christ, Jesus portrayed as suffering servant
Luke
= White Linen, Jesus portrayed as universal God (out of all the false gods, He
is the One and Only True and Living God for all peoples of the earth), and
perfect man (fully God and fully man).
John
= Blue, Jesus revealed to be God Almighty, Divinity, Heavenly.
Black
and White = the prophetic, especially written form (words are written in black
and white); writing ministry; Scribe; “write the vision” (Habakkuk 2:2-3); the
absolutes in God's Word.
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Notes I took from a Benny Hinn
Conference on the Anointing, Jubilee Christian Center, San Jose, California –
January 24-25, 2008